Mil's boyfriend is going away for a couple of days and she asked dh if she could come and stay. We have no room for her honestly and she is a stranger to the children (2 of which have sn), my fault in a way I suppose but she is always drunk. She has had many invites but prefers to go to the pub with bf. Anyway we said she could come for her tea tonight and dh would stay over with her tomorrow as he has a golf comp early on Saturday and she lives nearer. I got back in this morning to a message basically telling me I was a bitch and I never help her out (she forgets that we put on hold starting a family while her husband was dying and basically stayed with her on and off for a year whilst he was in and out of hospital, she begrudged us a night of for my birthday at the time) and that i was a was a terrible mother and person in general. Her parting words were 'Get Knotted'.
I think we were being quite accomodating I see no reason she can't stay at home on her own tbh. I rang dh and told him, I also told him I was really upset and she had better not come. He rang her and she says says she can't remember having done such a thing ffs. Thank god I kept the message on the answering machine. Dh is doubting me!!! He should be loyal to me surely, he never sees his mum unless she wants something and she has been found out in so many lies stirring between him and his brothers frankly I have no idea why when she does want him he is so happy to rush to her side.