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Opinions on this BBQ lunch for adults and young children

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Owlsintowels · 23/06/2019 19:36

Invited for a bbq lunch today. One of the inviting couple popped out to get the saus and burgers this morning so ample opportunity to buy other bits

BBQ for adults and 2 and 6 yr olds consisted of

One plain beef burger in a bun

One plain sausage in a bun

Option of ketchup or no ketchup

Some crisps to nibble

No salad. Not a cherry tomato in sight. No limp shredded iceberg. No cucumber or carrot batons. No pickles, mustard, mayo, fried onions
Nothing else

We met at 10am, went to park, kids had ice creams and shared chips as a snack since bbq was going to be 2pm. We joked about unhealthy snacks, kids living the dream eating just this food. I had no idea lunch wouldn't be a bit healthier

When I asked if there was any fruit I got given about 10 grapes per child

The hosts are very comfortably off, money is not the issue

I'm just dumbfounded this was their planned meal

We offered to bring something, w were told no thanks

We host them here just as much and would make potato salad plus salads, cucumber etc. My DC2 won't eat any veg so we'd also have houmous for his veg content plus piles of berries for nibbles. And crisps

Really interested in how many people think this is an OK lunch for such young kids

For context we had to leave our house early, and we got back home after at 6.30pm, so not much opportunity for us to get healthy food into our kids either end of the day, this meal was the bulk of the days nutrition.

We brought car fruit, and I'm aware noone will get scurvy or die

OP posts:
herculepoirot2 · 23/06/2019 21:29

They invite, they pay, they choose the menu. If you don’t like it, don’t go again.

babysharkah · 23/06/2019 21:31

It's one day! Give them a bowl of kale for tea if you're that worried about it.

VivienneHolt · 23/06/2019 21:43

Sounds boring af but all this ‘how could this be seen as a suitable lunch for kids’ stuff is a bit pearl-clutchy. One veg free lunch is hardly going to do them harm.

OralBElectricToothbrush · 23/06/2019 21:45

FFS, it's one day. Car fruit. Jesus wept.

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