To say to my fil, wow what bad manners

[Lardlizard]

When he’s having yet again another dig at me
For being a Sahm

I'd just say actually I'm looking after my child. You know, like you didn't. I want my child to actually know both her parents.

does SFIL have any kids of his own that he actually parented?

Tell him he can comment on what it means being a SAHP after he's done it himself.
Until then he can stick his ignorant, passive aggressive digs up his arse.

I agree with Apolloanddaphne, jgjgjgjg and others. Doesn't sound rude to me. It's not 'having a dig', unless you are going to come up with a massive backstory

Tell him to mind his own business next time.

Tell him you find his comments offensive and he should stop making them. He just doesn't realise the implications of what he is saying, stupid man.

just laugh and sigh and say ''oh that's what you'd THINK''.

i have kids (two teens) and everybody in my team at work goes on about the pressure and the stress and the deadlines and so on but to me, going in there is like fucking YOGA. They are all young men with no responsibilites. Not dissing mental health issues but we had one guy, lived at home with mum and dad, he was off for months because he couldn't handle the stress of the job that I find a pleasant break from housework/childcare/kids rowing and messing. (same job). But just smile and wave! so to speak.