Aibu to want to tell friend?

[thecheshirecatcanfuckoff]

Hi all I'm not really sure if this is the right place for this but just want your thoughts.
I joined a Facebook group for a tattoo artist that's local and think I've spotted a picure of my God daughter who's 19 having a tattoo done (her head is down but I think its her), that obviously isn't the problem, it's the fact that they are taking the piss out of her saying something nasty and it's in the albums to for everyone to see. Should I tell my friend to check it and talk to her daughter about it or ignore it. I Really really dont want to hurt or embarrass her. Would you like to know if it was your kid?

Myob

Yes i would tell her, especially as it is on FB. Maybe text her saying you think something has been posted about her daughter, should you send it over by screenshot etc. I would want to know.

And i would especially expect the god mother to my children to inform me my child might be being mocked online, how horrible at any age!

Who is taking the piss, the Tattoo artist? I'd be tempted to message them myself if that's the case and ask them to take it down

Thank you for your advice, I have taken screen shots of pic and comments.

How awful, the is artist is mocking a customer on their Facebook page?! I can’t imagine that’s an effective way to drum up business and if they carry on like that with any luck they’ll go out of business soon.

I’d probably lean more towards telling your god daughter directly given she’s an adult, unless you think she’d be really embarrassed and it’s better coming from her mum. You know them best but whether you go through her mum or not, definitely tell her. And report the comment on Facebook if it’s offensive.

I'd be inclined to check whether your god-daughter has a tattoo in the right place to fit the picture, before I did anything.

Yes it's the tattooist horrible tosser. It made me so angry when I saw it but as it's not a full face view
i need to check with her that it is her first before i messaged the tattooist. I just didn't want to embarrass her. But your right I'd want to know too. I will talk to my friend tonight.

That's horrible. I would tell your friend OP. I'd want to know if it were my child.

The tattoo artist?! What an arsehole, I agree to check she has a tattoo then take it from there message the tattoo artist and call him a prick

Yes it's the tattooist horrible tosser.

That's disgraceful, If I were reading his page thinking about getting a tattoo from him, I'd be having second thoughts and hopefully alot of other people are too

Oh believe me if I confirm it is definitely her I will give him a whole heap of grief, I can't believe he's put it up tbh. I certainly won't be using his studio and neither will anyone I know either. I feel quite sad that someone could behave this way towards her, she such a lovely young lady. Thanks guys you have really helped.

That’s appalling from the tattooist, deserves to lose business for that.

Even if it's not your goddaughter, the fact the tattooist is mocking one of his customers is appalling and he deserves to be exposed for the prick that he is.

Why would they post something nasty about a customer on FB? Even the biggest tossed in the world would know it would harm his business to do so.

If i were you i would screen shot/ scribble our her name and photo and share it. His business would collapse and he will get loads of hate.
How dare to take someones money and put somethi g perminantly ontheor skin and be mean about her publically?she will forever be reminded of her embarrassment by the tattoo. Tell the mum not the girl.
I personally wouldnt want to know so the mum would be in a better position to know if the daughter could handle that ?

Thank you everyone. Sadly it was her and have now told mum, she will decide whether to tell her dd. As much as I want to make sure everyone knows what this person is like I really don't want to put anymore emphasis on the picture if he was happy taking the piss out of a paying customer then I'm sure he's capable of making the photo more prominent and being nastier. I shall let my goddaughter decide what she wants to do if mum tells her.