Dh and I are NOT in a good place.
I recently told him I was going to leave him if he didn't deal with his addiction issues and abusive behaviour. (Low level but wearing).
He's referred himself for addiction support & seems to be desperate to stay married.
Given the above, AIBU to expect him not to spend the evening of our 20th wedding anniversary at a friend's house? A female friend?
She's married and I don't suspect an affair. Her (lovely) husband will be there, and they'll all be smoking marijuana together.
I've never posted on AIBU before, but I think I'll be bizarrely comforted by 'my husband and I don't even acknowledge our anniversaries: grow up" type posts.
Just trying to distract myself from how depressed I feel.