I possibly am being unreasonable here but I don’t know. Any experts about to help me? Other parents of 16+ children with SEN
So situation is that DS attends a special school , he has ASD, ADHD, Dyspraxia and Learning Difficulties. DS has had a very difficult Y11 due to several factors but anxiety being a huge one. He is also at an age where being at a special school is not cool and he dislikes being around the Y4 pupils (even though the he was once as silly and excitable as they are).
So plan is that he will attend a course at a local college for students with learning disabilities and other SEN. . I currently have no way of knowing how or even IF he will cope with this..
It’s literally going to be a “suck it and see” situation, for example I doubt he will cope with the college bus service initially. He doesn’t do crowds and in busy situations will enter a state of pacing and muttering to himself. He won’t interfere with anyone else but they will see he is different and this worries me.
He struggles with all aspects of school life, he will leave with Functional Skills English L1 but it looks like he will have failed his L1 Maths as he couldn’t cope with his anxiety during the test. He left the room several times and needed a lot of support to go back in and keep trying.
He should have BTEC in Art and Design but because he has hypermobile finger joints he avoids anything which he feels will make him look silly. He has been so successful at avoiding art that he didn’t have enough work for the exam. Likewise BTEC food tech was an issue as he got confined and upset so while he has passed the first part he was withdrawn from the second part because it was overwhelming for him.
On top of all this I got a letter out of the blue three weeks ago from the Local authority telling me they would cease his EHCP at the end of this academic year. I am tearing my hair out at this as DS isn’t coping even WITH his current EHCP plan never mind leaving him without one.
I am now at war with the LA (or so it feels) who are telling me that DS doesn’t need an EHCP in college as they have access there to Higher Needs Funding. But why issue an EHCP which should follow a young person up to 25 in education if you plan to cease many of them at the end of Y11? It makes no sense to me.
I’ve approached a mediation company and am just waiting to hear back from them . They in turn are waiting to hear back from the Local Authority with some dates.
I’ve also asked for an early Annual Review because I need the Local Authority to hear what difficulties my son currently has and actually justify ending his EHCP.
Any other advice would be helpful though,