Hi everyone,
i've name changed as i don't want this linked to my other posts as partner knows my username.
I'm so pissed off. My partner is a gardener and works mon-Fri 7am - 4pm, though has been doing overtime recently and staying until 6-6:30 ish.
He doesn't drive though normally he works locally so it's not hard for him to walk home if he doesn't fancy doing the overtime, otherwise he gets a lift with the person he works with as he always does over time. Thursday and Friday last week i picked him up at 4pm, bear in mind i work 9:30-5:30 Mon-Fri, though i can be a little bit flexible and i worked from home for the rest of the afternoon on both days. He was also based 5 minutes from our house.
Today he was supposed to be local, he never asked me to pick him up but implied it last week. He's been sent about 25-30 down the road and wants to finish at 4. This means I'd have to leave my office for at an hour and then come back. As i work in the tourism industry it's the busy period for us, we're short staffed so it's only me in the office at the moment.
He text me off his work friends phone to call him, I said he was taking the piss and i couldn't pick him up , plus i won't have my expenses paid until tomorrow and only had 45km in the car and that wasn't enough to get there and back. He asked me to call his nan and ask to borrow 10, said i wasn't comfortable doing this plus there is a language barrier, i can speak the language at a good level, however she's going deaf and finds it hard to understand what I'm saying. I call her anyway, 3 times and each time i called she didn't understand me. Called my partner back and told him to borrow his friends phone again, call her and ask her to call him back. He refused as he didn't want to borrow the phone again (his credit had gone).
He's now all pissed off with me because i'm not going to just knock on his nan's door and ask for money or hand my phone to her and expect her to give me cash. Told me not to bother to come home tonight 
(which is so pathetic it's laughable) and now he has to wait around for 2 hours in the other town.
AIBU not to go to his nan's and just get the cash. She can't understand me, i don't feel comfortable doing it and it means at least an house out of work!