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To be disturbed by all the drug dealing in my area?

38 replies

Notcontent · 17/06/2019 08:50

I live in London, in a lovely area, but quite mixed, as most of London is. Recently I have become highly aware of how much drug dealing takes place round me and I feel rather disturbed by it. It’s not that it has a direct impact on me, but I just feel rather angry and frustrated that it’s happening, everyone knows it’s happening, and yet nothing is being done about it because the police don’t have the resources. And in the meantime all these people are making a living out of other people’s misery.

Just as an example, this morning I was walking in a street very near my house and I saw a car park and then two very dishevelled guys got in with the driver. It was clear they were buying drugs. I actually made eye contact with the dealer and had this momentary impulse to take down his registration number but firstly I would be too scared of possible implications for my safety and secondly the police would probably do nothing. There is also someone who lives in my street who sells drugs and this has been going on for years.

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jackparlabane · 17/06/2019 11:06

The house opposite me used to be the local heroin dealers. The police knew and would come have chats with them every now and then. We'd sometimes see people waiting on the doorstep looking tetchy, but never any problem - in fact whenever there was a noisy party or any problem in the street, it was the one house it certainly wasn't!

The police said they preferred to know where people were getting smack from and that these guys were reasonable as such things go, and concerntrated efforts on violent dealers and the importers. They've moved now - may be conincidence but there there are now current fights between drug gangs, thankfully not on my street.

Bugsymalonemumof2 · 17/06/2019 11:11

Sadly it is everywhere and there are no consequences so people don't even try and hide it.

RosemaryRemember · 17/06/2019 19:06

Would the police like it next door to them I wonder.

But sadly my experience is also that police don't want to know. I saw the comment about the Met and clearly sometimes policy may change and it may be worth reporting something.

RosemaryRemember · 17/06/2019 19:11

Although I knew someone jailed for assault against the neighborhood drug dealer who had been thieving from his elderly parent. The guy was frustrated as the police essentially didn't want to know. I suppose they were the nice, quiet sort of dealers described above. It goes to show though that sometimes the police and courts can spring into action.

Nicknacky · 17/06/2019 19:12

rosemary Police officers don't live in crime free areas. They live on similar streets to the posters on here.

Not all drug dealing is done on slum estates.

RosemaryRemember · 17/06/2019 19:14

They didn't live where I lived. I think we were in the vanguard really.

Nicknacky · 17/06/2019 19:16

What’s a vanguard?

RosemaryRemember · 17/06/2019 19:23

It is like the front line troops afaik so in this case I meant first to bear the brunt of living with drug dealers.

We / My parents lived on the edge of an area with the early penetration of heroin in the 80s into working class communities rather than being quite a niche drug for musicians and the like earlier on.

Evenquieterlife33 · 17/06/2019 19:24

We had the pleasure of living next door to dealers. It was horrible. We live in a really nice area, you just wouldn’t think what was going on in that house was happening there. Anyway cut a long story short, it got beyond a joke, selling outside our house etc, we had small kids at the time. There were a few brawls outside, I won’t go into too much detail but it was quite frightening. I got to the point where I reported everything. We have a really nice group of neighbours and we had all had enough. We all reported every time we saw anything. The house was raided a few times, I couldn’t say what I’m relation to- there was all sorts going on there. Eventually they moved out- the owner sold up and moved away win drug dealing partner. Even if you think the police won’t do anything I’d still report it. They should be doing something about it, we pay taxes for them to do something about it.

RosemaryRemember · 17/06/2019 19:25

We didn't live in a slum either at that stage.

Nicknacky · 17/06/2019 19:26

rosemary That’s my point. Drug dealers are everywhere so yes, police officers do live close to them also.

RosemaryRemember · 17/06/2019 19:27

Are they really as sanguine about the upset caused though? I doubt it tbh.

RosemaryRemember · 17/06/2019 19:30

My parents went through hell and the police never wanted to know tbf.

Wrong sort of area I think. One of those estates you know..

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