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AIBU have I ruined Father's Day?

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wispa35 · 16/06/2019 08:11

So yesterday my husband decided he was going out for Father's Day drinks. It wasn't planned and just spur of the moment. I had no problem with it even dropped him to pub but I told pre-warned him dc had organized a surprise for him this morning so please don't get too drunk. He told me he'd be home about 2 would stick to bottles ect.
Half four he strolls in this morning puking his guts up. I am absolutely livid as it's a habit of his to come home this late and puke. I don't even care what time he came home at but the face was he woke me coming in and couldn't even string two sentences together.
I am also at my wits end as I'm with our 3 dc Monday to Friday had no downtime at all this weekend and feel like my life is so monogamous. I never go out and drink the way he does. I rarely go out full stop.
I know it sounds ridiculous but I feel I am on a rollercoaster of cooking, cleaning, school runs and then to watch him ruin my clean toilet just shows how little he respects me as to be honest his idea of cleaning it up is different to mine.
On Mother's Day I got up and gave him a hand more fool me. Me and dc had actually went to a lot of effort this year for Father's Day as last year I was newly pregnant and wasn't able. AIBU to be annoyed at this cos apparently I've just ruined Father's Day.

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AmIRightOrAMeringue · 16/06/2019 14:42

Even if it was his day to do exactly what he wants...I'd be hugely disappointed and hurt that his 'ideal day' didn't involve me or the kids at all.

Also I'd feel mortified if I disappointed the kids and spoilt their special surprise for me

timeisnotaline · 16/06/2019 16:14

it's his day and he can do what he wants.
I would be unable to stop myself replying that if we had to sorta custody agreement most couples agree to let the dad have the kids for father’s day , so if he keeps being such a twat like this he will be able to do whatever he wants on his special day while solo parenting.

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