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AIBU?

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To be disappointed about my desert?

143 replies

CrosscuttingThemes · 15/06/2019 20:25

Just had a meal in a local restaurant.
I ordered creme brûlée, it’s my favourite pudding. To me a good creme brûlée should have a hot burnt sugar crust with a smooth creamy light custard.

The pudding arrived looking spectacular with a high tower of spun sugar but bloody hell, when I tasted the custard it was thick with chopped raw hazelnuts. The texture was heavy as if it had been overly thickened with gelatin. It felt and tasted awful. So unlike what I expected, surprisingly as the main course was really excellent.
I ate the sugar but left the rest after tasting it.
I politely told the waitress that I couldn’t eat it, I would not have ordered it if I had been told it contained raw nuts (toasted nuts may have been ok, but still I would have preferred an ordinary creme brûlée)

She said ‘oh dear, what a shame’ but charged us for it. She suggested that in future I should check what the brûlée contains as the chef likes to mix it up and try different flavours.

So no tip for her.

Do you think they should have charged me? AIBU to think that if the chef changes a classic recipe, then the menu should indicate this or the waitress should have let me know that when I ordered it?

Puddings are really important, aren’t they? You just can’t mess with a dessert like this. It’s anarchy. What will future generations do if we allow this kind of thing now? I have children, I can’t bear to think that this is their future, a future containing raw nuts in creme brûlée.

I have to go and lie down. My heart is broken. My head is wrecked.

OP posts:
AnthonyCrowley · 16/06/2019 12:13

I feel your pain, ordered dd a gluten free chocolate brownie in a cafe last weekend. Unable to see them before ordering as they're kept out the back in the freezer It arrived on the table full of cherries. Which dd hates and didn't eat it. Sadly we paid on ordering and it cost me £4.50!

OldBean2 · 16/06/2019 12:26

I was once served duck with cherries... however the chef obviously did not realise they should be Morello cherries and had used glacé cherries. Inedible does not even come close.

Pashazade · 16/06/2019 12:31

Desserts is stressed spelled backwards! So when stressed you need desserts 😁

Redcrayons · 16/06/2019 12:40

I once had an Eton mess without meringue, so just strawberries and cream. I'm the anti-Delia and even I can make an Eton Mess.

Obviously I ate the whole thing, said it was lovely and then waited 5 years to complain about it on MN, like a true Brit.

Fluffycloudland77 · 16/06/2019 17:17

🙋🏻‍♀️ I’ve had cheesecake with sultanas in, my mum made it. She’s spent time working for Jewish families though and loved the food.

The flip side of all this is restaurants who cook so well everything you eat afterwords is shit. Haven’t had a good meal since Christmas 2015. Bastard chef with his skills & ingredients that just tasted so good.

FurrySlipperBoots · 16/06/2019 17:22

@OldBean2

Duck's off, sorry!

HippyChickMama · 16/06/2019 22:08

All this talk of creme brûlée and sultanas in cheesecake has reminded me that one of the nicest desserts I've ever had was a custard tart laced with sultanas that had been soaked in Earl Grey and with a caramelised sugar top. It was amazing and I keep meaning to have a go at replicating it.

mathanxiety · 16/06/2019 22:49

The nicest cheesecake I ever had was rum and raisin cheesecake served in a little soup and sandwich (and cheesecake) place in Dublin called Phillers. All the cheesecake there was fantastic.

Blumtre231 · 17/06/2019 07:59

I ordered bread and butter pudding and was horrified to find it had been made with chocolate. Not bits of chocolate, it was all through it as though they’d mixed it in the custard first. No mention of that in the description, and I sent it back. A man at the next table overheard and cancelled his before it arrived. I like chocolate but not in a bread and butter pudding! Don’t mess with a classic! YANBU

RhiWrites · 17/06/2019 08:38

It’s pretty mean to take the cost out of a tip instead of asking for it to be removed from the bill.

Meccacos · 17/06/2019 10:11

How do you mix up a creme brûlée without making it something else??

Because you ordered a creme brûlée but you received a raw hazelnut pudding.

I would be most disappointed.

DogHasEatenTheSqueaker · 17/06/2019 17:50

I had Coffee brûlée by accident once. Fuckoffee brûlée more like. That wasn’t on the menu either.

It’s such a sad day when your pudding is pants, especially if you’ve pre-stalked the menu online and been looking forwards to it for ages... Blush

TooManyPaws · 17/06/2019 18:06

I like chocolate but not in a bread and butter pudding! Don’t mess with a classic!

Mind you, bread and butter pudding made with stollen and a proper egg custard is amazing.

Blumtre231 · 17/06/2019 18:22

@TooManyPaws actually that sounds great Grin

BlueMerchant · 17/06/2019 18:29

You have very poor taste in desserts.
Creme brulee is awful. Was there no chocolate fudge cake or apple crumble?
Grin

ALongHardWinter · 17/06/2019 18:56

Which desert was it? The Sahara? The Gobi? Sorry OP,I'm just being facetious. It's only in the last couple of years that I've finally managed to to remember which spelling to use for a pudding,and which for a large expanse of land covered in sand and rocks. Grin

Redwoodmaz · 17/06/2019 19:32

I avoid desserts in restaurants. They are usually bought in and nowhere near as good as my home-made ones.

mamaofboyzz · 17/06/2019 20:03

That's just wrong! Why would they ruin a creme brûlée like that! My fave dessert ever! I would have been devastated!!

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