My parents texted me today to tell me they have put their house on the market and are buying a park home.
It’s something they have discussed before but every single time they have been put off because someone tells them a negative.
Now, without any discussion with me or my brothers they have decided to do it, because they are struggling financially.
I am not remotely unhappy about the decision to sell up.
It’s their house, their choice.
The problem I have is that I know of several people who have had parents who have done the same.
In one case, the site owners decided after 60 years to sell up, they gave my friend’s parents 6 weeks notice and £13,000 on a park home they had paid £65,000 for three years previously. She ended up getting a massive loan to help them get a deposit on a flat as they had nowhere else to go.
On another, the site was quiet all winter (pool and bar were shut) but March till September it was the equivalent of living at Butlins and they moved because they couldn’t stand the constant noise.
Another friend’s parents moved to one, after five years they were told they MUST upgrade their unit or face eviction because the site only wanted new units.
None of this is registering with my parents.
By all means, I would support a move to a flat say, or other freehold property. Just not this.
Plus the site they are looking at is potentially going to be next to a major new A road within a few years, so they have a high chance of it losing all its value, if it even stays open.
I have asked if they have any guarantees in writing, they say they don’t need them, it’s a family run firm. This has tipped me over the edge and I have had to cut the conversation short before I explode.
My brothers and I are not in a financial position to help or put them up.
So, the reason for my post is to ask for good news stories, tell me that I am being unreasonable and it will all be fine.
They are both 70 and in good health, at the moment. They refuse to go into housing association property because they are “for old people”.
Any advice please?