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Friend looking for pics

34 replies

waterskisurfer · 13/06/2019 17:34

Of me when I'm glam and going out .
Not sex ones though. Aibu to think it's bizarre

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SpamChaudFroid · 13/06/2019 18:00

Do you think they have a crush on you OP? Apparently Kanye West first fell in love with Kim Kardashion when he was masturbating to her sex tape

hazell42 · 13/06/2019 18:01

Bizarre that they don't want sex pics?
What do they want them for?
Bit odd, but maybe they are planning on doing a collage.
Or maybe they want their FB friends to think they only know attractive people.
Hard to tell from the 17 short words in your post
Why are you bothered?

gamerchick · 13/06/2019 18:03

You've posted about this before haven't you?

pictish · 13/06/2019 18:05

What?
Do you mean that a friend of yours wants you to send her photos of yourself when you’re dolled up to go out-out?

shitpark · 13/06/2019 18:09

I had a 'friend' once who wanted pics of me in red lipstick. I never wear it

HollowTalk · 13/06/2019 18:10

Isn't this a repeat? Guy from work who wants you to send photos of yourself before you go out for the night?

waterskisurfer · 13/06/2019 18:11

Sorry for the short opening post. I got grossed out and felt too weird calling a friend coz it's probably innocent
. Lately when I go out, like this evening, my friend asks me for a photo of me dressed up . In fact he is casual about it... have a super night, send us a photo when you're going out. That type of text . Feels off
He is attached .

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gamerchick · 13/06/2019 18:14

Isn't this a repeat? Guy from work who wants you to send photos of yourself before you go out for the night?

Yeah that one. Can't find the thread though.

Sparklesocks · 13/06/2019 18:15

Don’t send and just tell him you aren’t comfortable with those requests and dont think his partner would be either

PanteneProV · 13/06/2019 18:15

Deffo read this before, is this the second time you’ve posted about it? I agree it’s a bit weird.

Diamondeye · 13/06/2019 18:15

Definitely read this thread before

waterskisurfer · 13/06/2019 18:19

Yes it's a repeat. It hasn't t stopped. I joked originally and told him to ease off . Now I've just called him a creep so thanks for responding. I think I did the right thing. I'm glad to know it's not just me . Weird

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TooOldForThisWhoCares · 13/06/2019 18:19

You posted about this before.

hazell42 · 13/06/2019 18:25

You've gone straight from joking to calling him a creep?
Couldn't you have just said, 'Er, no' and left it at that?

FudgeBrownie2019 · 13/06/2019 18:27

Apparently Kanye West first fell in love with Kim Kardashion when he was masturbating to her sex tape

This is the best information I've ever learned from Mumsnet and I hope with all my blackened heart that it's true!

SpamChaudFroid · 13/06/2019 18:33

He happily admitted to it on the (I think) Ellen Show. Grin Modern love, eh?

FudgeBrownie2019 · 13/06/2019 18:36

SpamChaudFroid I can't stop laughing at the thought of a cracker like KW falling in love with KK whilst she was being 'romanced' by another fella. It just convinces me more than ever that KW is a genius on a higher plane and we're all too silly to see it.

Drum2018 · 13/06/2019 18:38

Can't you just ignore the messages, go out and don't send pics? He can't ask as much as he wants but it doesn't mean you have to respond.

HollowTalk · 13/06/2019 18:39

Send a message to his wife: "Hi, Man wanted a photo of me before I went out tonight. Please can you tell him I'm not comfortable with this?"

Why are you in contact with this person? Is he your boss?

Drum2018 · 13/06/2019 18:39

He 'can' ask as much as he wants

waterskisurfer · 13/06/2019 18:43

The last time I asked for advice on this I told him to ease off on the requests. He did for a while. Now he is doing it again so I just text and told him to ' do one creep !'

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HollowTalk · 13/06/2019 18:44

How do you know this person?

waterskisurfer · 13/06/2019 18:47

He's my friend who has become more cheeky over text , as I spend more time with him

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Desmondo2016 · 13/06/2019 18:51

Shame really because if it was a female friend you probably wouldn't think anything of it but from your latest post it does seem as tho you're picking up more inappropriate vibes than just a good mate nosing at your outfit!

HollowTalk · 13/06/2019 18:52

And do you work together?

Do you have a partner? If so, what do they think of this?

I don't think he's a friend. He's a creep who enjoys making you feel uncomfortable.

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