To think he's not interested?

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I started dating a guy who is really lovely. He texts quite often which I have reciprocated, but the texts are pretty generic as in chatting about our days etc. I'm not a big texter but I have tried to text more because he seems to

One of the reasons I don't like texting is that it's hard to read a situation properly. After a conversation in the morning yesterday he stopped replying as he was in work, which is fair enough. Anyway this morning he has text me saying he was really sorry he didn't reply but his day was shit. He didn't reply to the contents of my previous message

My friend seems to think this is the beginning of him losing interest and a way of shutting down the conversation without being nasty. I thought he was just being genuine!

Aibu in asking if I should reply or not?!

Just ask him why his day was shit?

So he has a bad day and your friend’s immediate response to someone not prioritising your questions or comments in a text is that he has lost interest rather than something more important or distracting has happened? I think YABU and I would message back to ask what happened and take it from there.

Out of interest, how old are you OP?

I'm 32 and hes 34. I thought my friends opinion was childish too

I shut off when I've had a bad day too and can't find it in myself to reply to all messages. Just ask him why his day was so bad OP. And ask him if there's anything you can do to help