My neighbours have a solar light in their garden. OK in the evening but it is on all night which I don't like. I'm an insomniac and like the dark when I look outside. They carried on slamming the door when I asked them not to so I see no point in complaining. They have shouted through the party wall "I didn't threaten you" when I was talking on my landline-I should have said that I felt threatened. They seem oblivious to the fact that a woman who lives alone may feel frightened by an angry male neighbour knocking on her door after dark. Plus this was a private call. I'd use my mobile elsewhere in the house but the reception is bad in my home. And when I had a letter from the police saying these people wanted no contact with me I was glad-it had "we are very sorry if our cat goes in your garden" and we are very sorry if any balls go over the fence, please keep the balls" in it. I have no idea where the bit about the cat comes from as I adore cats. I feel they should not be shouting through the party wall in response to my private calls, especially as they want no contact. I also cannot understand why the nosey bullying control freak who used to own the other side didn't get sent a no contact note by the police as I had years of problems with her plus the man at the end of the road who I had hassle from just after my mum died-this resulted in my rape flashbacks returning after several years free of them. I started checking the coast is clear whenever I went out and I"d lurk round the corner if he was in my road when I got back. These are things I did when I was raped by a neighbour years ago somewhere else. I've had the flashbacks ever since. It makes me feel I am some sort of inferior being having to put up with these things whereas next door can just brush me aside. I went into my garden recently and the woman next door was entertaining friends. She said "oh no" as I went out. It is as if they think they have priority regarding using the garden. I used to love spending time in my garden-they have ruined that enjoyment.