To give context, boyfriend of 3 months, he’s said he’ll text later on a few times and doesn’t end up doing, today I asked him to come over and he said he had something to do but would come over if he’d got it finished, I haven’t heard anything from him since. Lack of communication outside the time we spend together is starting to bother me so wanted to send a text to let him know... does this sound ok or is it too full on?
I’ve felt a bit upset that you didn’t let me know what you’d decided you were doing today. It leaves me feeling a bit confused sometimes cos I feel like when I’m with you you say you care about me and act like you care about me but then sometimes when we’re not together it feels like you don’t really think about me that much to want to talk or sometimes you say you’ll text later then don’t. I get you’re busy and that’s fine but it’d take seconds to just send a quick text saying I’m busy speak tomorrow or whatever. I don’t mean to make you feel bad for not coming over saying that, I honestly don’t mind that you didn’t, it just bothers me cos I feel like you don’t care enough to let me know.
Thanks in advance for any changes or suggestions.