To ask if I am getting enough support

[FluffyTabbycat]

Hi just want to get others advice opinions on if they think in getting enough help off OH
Just feel like I'm about flat today and I'm wondering if this is why
So our day goes
I set alarm for 7
Get up with baby
Wake up 7 YO dd
Get breakfast for DD
Coffee for me and hubby
Get baby's bottle
Go up stairs with breakies coffee bottle
DD has her breakie
Hubby has coffee
I feed baby bottle
Then I sit baby in bed with hubby
Make sure 7 yo getting dressed for school
Get my self ready
Leave baby in house with hubby
Take DD to school
Come home
DH has usual half heartedly got bby to sleep he asses her to me she wakes up , with wind etc
I change bby
DH makes him self another breakfast
He goes to gym
I clear house best I can with baby
Ie. breakfast dishes hoover hang out washing make beds
He comes home from gym
Baby has sleep in her room
Excuse the next part
He initiates sex
It usually happens
He gets showerd
I see to baby who is usual due to wake up
He gos to work .... Starts at 2 pm
I give baby meal
And then pick up dd from school
Come home or park if nice weather
Tea
Bath
Story's
Bottles
Bed
With lots of crying tired kids in-between all of the above.
Kids in bed
I tidy round a bit
Have a shower
Watch a hour or so of TV
Go to bed
DH comes In From work at 11
Moans his feet hurt
He Has a shower he goes to bed
I wake 2 times thru night with baby.
And alarm goes off at 7.
Is this fair

Thank you everyone this is really helping xx

A good idea, OP, is to have a think each evening before you go to bed about what you’d like to to the next day. Even if it’s just “go to feed the ducks” or “have coffee with Jane”. Then let your DH know you will be out from X time so he needs to hang washing or hoover or whatever. Start making plans with friends as well. Get your diary out and start making appointments for yourself to see people. Put it on the calendar on the fridge so DH can see it’s happening. You don’t exist to be available to him for breakfast and sex.