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AIBU to dye my hair bright red?

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livin · 09/06/2019 21:02

Early 30's, 3 kids and I've been varying shades of blonde, coppery ginger and brown for years. I have the summer off for the rest of leave before starting back in a very corporate environment when I intend to go back to a 'natural' colour.

DH says go for it (it being a bright semi permanent pillarbox red that I know will be a bitch to maintain). Family and friends say I'm too old to pull it off.

So what do you think? Go bright red for a month or so before going back a red based brown? I've been all colours from pink to green to blue in my twenties but not in recent years. Am I too 'old'?

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maimainomai · 10/06/2019 10:37

Do it! It's your head.
your family and friends (or random mumsnetters) don't have to like it.

You may be able to pull it off or end up looking like a water corpse... In which case you'll know to not do it again and have the whole summer to fix it! 👍👍

TheMobileSiteMadeMeSignup · 10/06/2019 10:38

I miss my red hair but I'm currently pink with one side shaved down. I'm 37. DD's friends think my hair is cool.

HicDraconis · 10/06/2019 10:59

I’m bright red and 45. You’re never too old! It’s brighter in sunlight :)

AIBU to dye my hair bright red?
TheFrenchLieutenantsMonkey · 10/06/2019 11:27

I'm 42 and I've got bubblegum pink hair. Took me this long to realise its my hair and I can do what I like with it and it's nobody else's business.

MadSweeney · 10/06/2019 11:29

I was pillar box red until at least 40, only stopped because I couldn't be arsed to do it every few weekends.
Mine was black on top and red underneath. I used Stargazer dye.

Go for it!

MaryBerrysBomberJacket · 10/06/2019 11:29

Go for it. I'm 36, a teacher and am currently Directions Vermillion, Rubine and Rose Red. I was a lovely Cadbury purple about 4 years ago but this school wouldn't let me have it!

Elphame · 10/06/2019 11:51

I had mine Manic Panic Napalm for a while - fabulous bright orange - and I'm a lot older than you.

Now it's brown with orange and bright red highlights. I love it and I get so many compliments

poodlewoodle · 10/06/2019 11:57

Go for it! I've got a short bubble gum blue bob, my Dad hates it my DH hates it my friends love it! I'm turning 50 this summer and don't care Smile

IlluminatiConfirmed · 10/06/2019 14:43

I was blonde for decades and then red for several years, now burgundy/purple, I'm 40 and loving it. I'm using permanent colour and it's as bright as it gets. Definitely go for it. It illuminates confidence and I get compliments about it all the time :)

Transition from blonde to red meant that I ditched some pale coloured clothes because they clashed with the bright hair colour in a bad way. No regrets though and no going back!

IlluminatiConfirmed · 10/06/2019 14:45

I work in a university, if that matters (I don't think it does! It's not anything radical really).

PointlessUsername · 10/06/2019 14:50

Its a pain in the arse upkeep wise fades so fast and took me an age to completely rid myself of the red to get it back to a nice colour.

GrimDamnFanjo · 10/06/2019 14:52

I'm red ! It's harder to get a bright version with semipermanent if your hair is dark so mine was lightened first,
It's hard work as roots show quickly but I love it!

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