So a mum at the school gate has been hassling me for weeks go get my DS to do a play date at hers after school. She even offered to do school pick up and drop off. We finally agreed on a date, but when my DS was dropped back, he said the mum had gone off for a sleep and left them roaming around the house and garden the whole time!! They are only five - aibu to think this is totally unacceptable? My DS said she was properly in bed and snoring!!