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AIBU?

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To be at my wits end over people parking over my drive

51 replies

Debbiediva · 09/06/2019 16:37

I live In London near two railway stations, shops, schools etc you get the jist. I have had cars parking on my drive 3/4 times a week for the last couple of months. The council are good but frequently take too long to come. Is there anything I can do to stop this.

OP posts:
GetOffTheTableMabel · 09/06/2019 17:18

Find out who your elected local district or county councillor is (around here it would be a matter for the county council so I’d probably start there). Book an appointment at their advice surgery and go along with photographs and perhaps some supporting letters from affected neighbours and see if they will help by painting lines.

1moremum · 09/06/2019 17:19

Sycamoretrees, I see you and your Penguin Bollards comment.

Is that in classics? It should be.

CodenameVillanelle · 09/06/2019 17:20

Put up a sign saying illegal parking with receive a ticket. They don't have to know you won't be able to issue one.

Nobody would believe that a private individual can issue a parking ticket.

janetforpresident · 09/06/2019 17:25

I would get a sign made saying "Do no block drive, access needed at all times. Photos will be taken of any cars parked over drive and forwarded to council." Then put up some kind of fake or real cctv camera

DogHasEatenTheSqueaker · 09/06/2019 17:56

Write rude stuff on windscreens in lipstick

Could it possibly be another use for Sudocreme?

Wink
ZebrasAreBras · 09/06/2019 19:23

We had this problem, although we'e not in London.

A sign improved things considerably.

One of our neighbours have a rather good "Do Not Even THINK of Parking Over This Driveway" - although we went with the more traditional "Please Do Not Block This Driveway" Grin

Btw, I do feel your pain. It's infuriating. I once (after a couple of Wine threw potato peelings over the windscreen of the offending car. I saw them come back to it, and they were all "ew that's disgusting" and were pretty angry - so I wouldn't actually advise it. I just had a fit of temper.

I did an "AIBU" post on here actually (on chat so unfortunately it's gone now) but I got a unanimous YANBU! So there's that.

Scoobydobbywho · 09/06/2019 19:28

We are near a school and had 2 cars parked halfway across our driveway on the same day. Angry

Greenvalleymama · 09/06/2019 20:31

Would writing on stickers and sticking them on windscreens of offending vehicles work? They wouldn't cause any actual damage, just a nuisance to scrub off, and they can't prove which neighbour it was if it's a shared drive. Just deny it and remind them they shouldn't block drives if they knock on your door. Might stop repeat offenders.

Gth1234 · 09/06/2019 22:38

when they aren't looking damage the car.

randomchap · 09/06/2019 22:53

Rub dog shit under the handles

AfterSchoolWorry · 09/06/2019 22:55

I'd park over the drive myself.

Redglitter · 09/06/2019 22:59

Can you post a pic

What difference does a pic make? The OP has explained the cars park in the street blocking her drive

I'd also get for the H bar on the road. My next door neighbours have this at their drive - we live by a school - seems very effective

Cherrysoup · 09/06/2019 23:03

@AfterSchoolWorry she says it’s a shared drive, she can’t.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/06/2019 23:07

I think this is the case...

It's illegal to stop someone getting off their property, so the police can deal with it. However, it's different when you come home: people can obstruct as much as they like.

Iwantdoesntget · 09/06/2019 23:19

@Redglitter. Pic makes a big difference in terms of advice. Visible or non visible Dropped curb, double yellows, penguin bollards etc

bebeboeuf · 09/06/2019 23:35

I’ve lived in my house 2.5 years and nearly once a week someone parks half across my driveway on the pavement outside so that I either can’t get out at all or have to do a million point manoeuvre to leave.

It’s infuriating and I don’t get why they seem to always do it over my driveway and no one else’s

ThePhoenixRises · 09/06/2019 23:37

Park your car there first, over your own driveway, I know it's a pain but after a few days they should give up and find somewhere else.

ThePhoenixRises · 09/06/2019 23:40

Can all 3 of you move your cars to the bottom of the driveway, so there leaves no space for an added car?

Pantsomime · 09/06/2019 23:43

Can you put CCTV signs up

Weenurse · 09/06/2019 23:43

Drive is shared by 3 houses so can’t block everyone in.
I would go with sign and camera so evidence can be sent to local council.
Also talk to council about what you can do to prevent this happening.

DSHathawayGivesMeFannyGallops · 09/06/2019 23:48

My parents have this sometimes. They leave notes. The couple of the times people have been in the vehicles for DPs to ask them to move have been less successful; they live next door to a Drs surgery and one snotty cow informed DM that she "used to be a member of the medical profession"- as if that gave her a free pass, and one knuckle-dragger threatened to get out and punch my dad, who's in his 80s. How dare we want to use our drive.

Mummyshark2019 · 09/06/2019 23:53

Throw eggs at the cars. They will get the message.

PregnantSea · 09/06/2019 23:57

I would start damaging cars. Or at the very least tipping sticky stuff over the windscreen, or dog shit on the handles.

I know it's wrong. I am probably not the best person to be giving advice here. Sorry this is happening OP, it sounds infuriating. I'm impressed you have more patience and maturity than I do.

DdraigGoch · 10/06/2019 00:12

Another vote for lipstick on the windscreen. Perhaps draw a phallus. That might get your point across.

UrsulaPandress · 10/06/2019 00:17

I'd take indirect action as well as this would give me the rage.

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