No plan

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I don't know if it's me stressing but my husband never plans anything - if that makes sense. For example - he never plans the weekend- just gets up on the weekend and if it was up to him we'd -hang out/see where the day takes us /waste it hanging around. Then he'd realise that he's hungry half way through the day and go look for something to eat /grab an unhealthy expensive sandwich/sweets/pack of crisps.
I like to look for things to do with the kids - and with that I like to plan healthy meals. It's hard work doing this and I'd love help in doing so without asking. Such as - I've sorted lunch (healthy, cheap option).
It's the same with everything if that makes sense.

Opposite here- DH is a planner and always on the go. I like to just chill and relax, and find it a bit irritating! I guess we are all different. I mean when the DC were very young it used to be good to have more of a plan and get out the house, but now they are older I find it a bit more annoying. I tend to let him get on with it and just stay home at times!

I do plan meals / cook though.

My DH is like that, but never has an issue with me planning things to do. It works well for us and we get a nice mix of planned and unplanned days.