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Things other people do that you just don't 'get'

917 replies

DebbieFiderer · 08/06/2019 07:44

Mine are -

Starting to drive off, then putting your seat belt on whilst trying to control the car at the same time. Why? It can't save more than a second, looks awkward, and is dangerous!

Putting bananas into a little plastic bag before putting them in the trolley - the only reason I can see for the plastic bags is to keep loose veg together, or to keep edible parts clean, neither of which applies to bananas, so what's the point?

Taking shopping trollies back to the trolley park but not actually connecting them up with the ones already there - you've done about 95% of the effort, is it really that hard to make someone else's life a bit easier by putting it away properly?

( Yes, mine do seem to be mostly supermarket related but I suppose that's where I come across other people most of the time!)

Actually, I do have one non-supermarket one - people only using one half of a set of double doors when there is a queue of people all wanting to go through - they all line up patiently to go through the one door rather than just OPENING THE OTHER ONE!!

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Gwenhwyfar · 08/06/2019 23:41

"People who put their rubbish bags out the night before the dustmen are due, the foxes/cats have a wonderful time splitting open the bags and scattering the contents all over the pavement/road (which I usually clear up)."

Ours have to be out by a very early hour in the morning so what do you expect us to do?

sweetkitty · 08/06/2019 23:42

Gin
I don’t get this sudden obsession with gin, it’s been about donkeys years my great aunts used to drink it, now we have wanky new flavours and cocktails. I’ve yet to try one I like, it’s all like drinking perfume. Oh sweet kitty you haven’t found the right one yet cue pink gin with lemonade, ice and loads of wanky fruit in a glass. Still tastes like a bottles of Chanel.

Gwenhwyfar · 08/06/2019 23:43

"people that don’t shower twice a day"

What? YABU if you DO shower twice a day.
You're obviously not on a meter are you!

Heartofglass12345 · 08/06/2019 23:44

Marker pen eyebrows
Long pointy false nails
Go to work all week then spend Saturday shopping in supermarket hell and most of Sunday preparing a Sunday dinner Confused
Oh and reversing into a space is much easier than reversing out of one, you don't have a car either side of you so much more room to manoeuvre, and you can drive straight out

Ohyesiam · 08/06/2019 23:47

Disneyland/world.
Will never get the appeal of any of that.

Gwenhwyfar · 08/06/2019 23:54

"People who don't get a receipt when paying contactless for something - how on earth do you keep track of how much you've spent"

I check my bank statement at the end of the month.

LookingAtTheStars89 · 08/06/2019 23:57

People who get up before the train has even reached the station, let alone stopped! I'm sat there thinking "How do you think you're going to get off before the train has stopped moving?!"

lhastingsmua · 09/06/2019 01:09

@Gwenhwyfar Nope, sorry for being a clean person! I find it vile when people get into bed without showering with their outdoor germs/sweat etc. But it’s even worse when people don’t shower in the morning and absolutely reek at work/on public transport etc. Showing takes 2 minutes, just need to wash and rinse?

DifficultSituation19 · 09/06/2019 01:17

A driving one - and it happens a lot in my town. When there’s parked cars on the side of the road so that traffic on the other side has right of way, but people on the right of way side decide to stop to let cars who don’t have right of way through. I’m sure they think they’re just being nice, but the cars coming the other way are confused as they know they shouldn’t be going, so it takes them 10 secs to clock what’s going on and start moving. A minor grumble in the scheme of things but why fuck with the Highway Code?! Just follow it and the traffic keeps moving much better.

wotsittoyou · 09/06/2019 01:31

People who spend half of every Sunday washing their car.

People who don't chat to strangers. Why can't a pleasant exchange with somebody be an end in itself?

People who insist that children share everything. Alright, Sharon, pass me your bag so I can have a little rifle through your phone and purse, eh, while we're all fecking sharing!

People who answer product questions on Amazon with "I'm sorry, I can't answer that". That message can be expressed very well by the absence of your response - you don't actually need to articulate it!

tiddlyipom · 09/06/2019 02:13

I don't get people who don't vote.
People who care more about what's happening on some reality show or soap than what's going on in the real world.
People who say they are not feminists.
People who won't say no to their children .......and get upset when someone else does.
I really don't get camping.We live in a place where summer temps can reach over 40....I want AC and a fridge and my own bed, I don't want to bake in a nylon tent surrounded by flies and mosquitoes and have to shit behind a bush!

TheClaws · 09/06/2019 02:37

Returning trolley story: I didn’t do that just yesterday. My excuse is the liquor store didn’t have a trolley return in front of it, so I placed the trolley in what I thought was a safe space in front of a column. However, as we were driving out, I saw some men starting a fight in front of the store (!!) and now I’m concerned my trolley might have been used as a weapon. I’ll always return them properly now ...

springydaff · 09/06/2019 02:45

People who put their kids in/out of child seats on the roadside of the car. It drives me absolutely nuts - do walk with your unbelievably precious cargo right into the road, why don't you. Argh!

Lean in from the fucking pavement side. Then everybody is safe. Or turn your car around to park.

StoppinBy · 09/06/2019 03:05

@Iloveeurovision BLW is meant to be relaxed, you take what you want from it and leave the rest. I did with our second and it made life so much easier when weaning. I had to always take food with us for my DD but my DS we just gave him something off our plates from what ever we were eating.

Trebla · 09/06/2019 03:05

BLW

All mine have been blw or (lazy led weaning). 6 months and chuck a bit of dinner at them. Done and dusted.

AmeriAnn · 09/06/2019 03:20

I don't like cryptic FB post either. I have a friend (65 so no teenager) who does a few a week. Friday's was "I am so worried". In the past she's posted, "I can't believe this has happened to me" and "I'm frightened", to name a few.

I ignore these posts but she gets people's attention and they ask her what happened, what's going on.

The "I'm so worried" post was about a doctors appointment for what turned out to be a cyst.

firstimemamma · 09/06/2019 03:28

People who repeatedly stab the 'doors open' button with their finger the second the train stops or sometimes even a bit before it's come to a stop. Why hasn't the penny dropped for them that the doors will only open once the button lights up?!

donutrehomer · 09/06/2019 03:31

Greedy people at buffets. It's a buffet for 100 because 100 guests are there. Don't load your plate so high others go hungry, or return for a third or fourth time before everyone else has eaten.

Don't even get me started on people who take containers to a buffet and fill them to take home. Wasn't even the end of the evening, hosts weren't even offering food for people to rake home. It was done whilst people were queuing for the buffet!!

Bloodybridget · 09/06/2019 03:54

People who sit on the outside seat of the bus (and then look miffed when they have to get up to let you in).
People who block bus stairs and doors.
Litterers!
Gwenhyfar can you not put your rubbish out in a dustbin?
People who think retirees should be limited to shopping between 9 - 3pm, M-F.

Graphista · 09/06/2019 05:04

Icerebel - I don't even own an iron or ironing board any more. My mother really can't get her head round this but then she irons EVERYTHING inc hankies!

I don't get BLW and I say that as a former nanny and childminder! To me it seems to be applying a name to a perfectly normal stage of weaning combined with making life harder than it need be by closing the puree/mash stage. Even adults eat puréed/mashed food so why would you go out of your way to avoid giving to your child?! Bonkers!

"Mine is reversing into spaces. It's making life more difficult. Reverse out it easier and makes more sense having your boot facing out." Actually you really shouldn't find it that hard to reverse into spaces and it's safer to avoid reversing out especially in public car parking areas as you can't predict what others will do especially children and if you're reversing out you can't see as well to avoid any accidents.

"I agree with all the above except blw. Purée seem to faffy and all the stages confuse me." How is it faffy? Most foods can be mashed with a fork, or if not there are small blenders you can use or bulk puree. People have done this for thousands of years and yet with all out modern equipment to help its too much trouble?

"Standing in doorways chatting. Then being surprised when asked to move so others can get through the door" omg yes! Ditto doing this at the top of escalators/travelators it's bloody dangerous as well as rude!

"Suduko. I mean, why?" I play sudoku on my phone just before I go to sleep. I suffer from mh issues inc anxiety and I find it hypnotic and relaxing. Just one persons reason.

"People that smoke. Especially young adults, who in this day and age are well aware of the dangers and it's so bloody expensive!" Yea I really don't get this! Anyone under 50 or maybe even 60 was well aware of the health issues, how antisocial it is, how it makes you smell gross, is crazy expensive etc well before they were old enough to start so why?!!!

"Don't get the panic about putting the divider thing between my shopping and hours on the conveyor. Don't flippin' panic, do you honestly think I'm going to start paying for your shopping?" Sorry but not only as a shopper but as a former checkout worker this is very annoying they're there for a reason and it's very easy for mistakes to occur if they aren't used and that's a pain to sort out.

On the eyebrows, well it's just a fashion for some youngsters isn't it? There were dodgy fashions in most decades which I'm sure some of us were guilty of. I had a poodle perm. Multicoloured eyeshadow, electric blue and purple mascaras and eyeliners... 😂😂😂

"People who stand on busy buses, when there are still seats available. Meaning that after a couple more stops, the bus won’t take on any more passengers because the driver thinks it is full. Just sit in a seat!" I rarely use buses but when I do I don't sit because the seats are so uncomfortable I end up screwing my back up - but I do have a disability that is why this happens, but then I have several friends with things like arthritis who've said the same. Sometimes they're also too low to get up from easily.

"Allowing children to run/skate/ride scooter or bike in a supermarket. It is not a playground." OMG yes! Or prat around with the products! Parent your bloody kids! It's not acceptable to let them do this. Our supermarket has had real problems with this and ended up plain banning certain toys - the kick off locally! Ridiculous

"Poor people who vote conservative I mean why? Do you not like eating?" Make that anyone who isn't independently wealthy voting tory! The tories absolutely don't give a toss about anyone but themselves and those like them.

"People who vote Labour. I’m on minimum wage and I’m far better off than I was under labour. They want you poor." Genuine question how old are you? Do you mean new labour or are you old enough to remember pre 1979?

"People who don't get a receipt when paying contactless for something - how on earth do you keep track of how much you've spent?" Erm...really? It'll be on their bank statements and most people have apps for their accounts now too some link up to spending tracker apps.

"People who use online food shopping - you end up with the first item pulled off the shelf, often with a short use by date on it and then have to wait in for the privilege of having it delivered to you. Scan and shop is the way forward!" I'm disabled and live 3 flights up, I'm also currently housebound. The dates are always good and if not I receive an alert around 8am on the day it's being delivered so I can reject the item of the date isn't suitable.

"particularly outside hospital doors." Smoking is banned on our hospitals grounds altogether and from talking to friends and family around the country this is becoming quite common.

"Also drinking/smoking during pregnancy - but it's Xmas day/my birthday/Wednesday!! Yeah and???" I'm so with you on this. Absolutely no need for it. If you can't quit for your developing child for 9 months I'm not convinced you're ready to be a mother.

"People who let their children walk, run or play in cafes and restaurants. Make your child sit in a seat ffs. If a waiter or waitress drops something on them who are you going to blame?" Yep! Idiocy

Graphista · 09/06/2019 05:23

Not so lighthearted

Have more than one child with a man they already know to be a useless lazy husband and father!

sashh · 09/06/2019 06:07

I've done the abandoning trolley because it is literally painful for me to return it.I do most shopping online but occasionally need something.

I do generally look around and I've often asked children to return it, they get to keep the £ (I obviously check with parents first).

My big supermarket hate - again due to pain as much as annoyance, is people who load up the conveyor belt and then watch as their shopping goes on a little trip without them, leaving an empty conveyor belt.

Stupid school rules such as if a child does not a have a pen they they get an immediate detention which takes up all of their break and all of mine.

I've done loads of supply work, I have bright sparkly pens with, "stolen from Ms Sashh" on them.

It's easier and less disruptive to say, "has everyone got a pen?" and supply them with one which I get back at the end of the lesson.

I don't know the child's circumstances, if they have had breakfast, if they are being bullied and the bully has taken their pen.

Also I need to get tot he next room and I don't know the school and I walk slowly with a stick.

Rant over.

SnugglySnerd · 09/06/2019 06:46

springydaff I have 3 dcs of car seat age. Even if I could reach across the whole width the of the car holding the weight a a 2 yr old and keep her still long enough at arms length to be able to fasten her in I couldn't reach over the other 2. I would prefer not to be standing in the road fastening her in but really have no choice.

FionasWineShow · 09/06/2019 07:08

Of course it's better to reverse into a car park!!

When you're doing that, you have the exact lay of the land, and get the more tricky reversing part over and done with.

It's far less safe to reverse out of a park. And so much easier just to drive out and away.

trotesio · 09/06/2019 07:10

Parents who seat children in the front of the car.

Parents who take children out of school for holidays.