I am posting it here as I don't know where else to fit it!
My 4 y.o. dd attended a birthday party last Saturday. Now she wants a perty for her birthday as well.
As I am a foreigner, I would like some help with understanding 'party code' here.
- Is it normal to shove presents away without opening them? My dd was really looking forward to her friend opening the present as my dd chose it herself.
- Is it normal to invite not your child's friends, but parents' friends and their kids no matter what age they are? I think there is a huge gap between 4 y.o. and 8-12 y.o.?
- What's the best number of guests? Is 3 dozens normal?
- Is it normal to dress 4-5 y.o. girls in boob tubes, low-rise pants and heels?
- Can I have fancy dress party? Can I state on the invitation, for example, 'under the sea party'?
- Can I have fruit and home made cakes?
- What's the best time for the party? I've noticed after 2 hours smaller kids started to look exhausted - but the host had to stay on and fallen asleep. Can I put start and end time on the invitation, say 2.30 - 4.30 pm?
- What should be acceptable average price for the party bag - the one that a guest would take home with her/him? OK, the cheapest?
- Any general advice will be much appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Many thanks