DH has a habit of either starting large DIY jobs and leaving them half done for months or even years, or doing a DIY job and throwing himself into it at the expense of family life, household chores etc.
A few months ago he decided he wanted to extend our house. I wasn't keen for above reasons and because I didn't feel the need but eventually agreed on the condition that he got builders in to do everything including project manage the build.
Several months down the line and the extension has been under way for months but DH hasn't kept to his word and is insisting on doing lots of it himself. He gets builders in to do some of it but then helps them himself, and does all kinds of jobs himself on it every evening which involves lots of complaining, banging, huffing and swearing.
I am getting more and more fucked off as he has completely opted out of family life and home life for months now, leaving me to do everything. He is constantly in a foul mood and moaning about how tired he is. We run a business together from home and he just goes off outside to work with builders or to do extension work and leaves it all to me. He also keeps trying to get me to help in the evening even though I have things to do, then when I do help he's bad tempered and snappy at me.
I've got a cough tonight and have come downstairs to take cough medicine, have a drink and try to feel a bit better before I go back to bed and he's just come downstairs to have a go at me for coughing at 1am. This is from a bloke who snores so fucking loudly all night, every night!
He'll be up in the morning working with the builders whilst being moody and uncommunicative with me all day. The house is full of fucking mess and dust from the work.
AIBU to be pissed off? I can't take another few months of his constant moods and moaning!