Does anyone else feel intense guilt for ever bitching about DP

[cherrycherrybabyx]

DP and I were recently going through quite a rough patch, not getting on at all and I was considering ending it completely and leaving him. We're getting on well again now but I feel really, really guilty as during this time I bitched about him quite a lot to my mum and sister - saying I didn't know if I fancied him anymore, that he was lazy etc etc. Also spoke to my friend about all this and said I just didn't know if I was happy. He obviously doesn't know about my bitching but I feel really mean now, like he thinks I'm so sweet and really I'm just a bitch.

You probably wouldn't have been a bitch if he hadn't have been a knob.
That's my excuse anyway.

Don’t moan close to home. It’s good to vent but not fair on your DH, sister or Mum to talk to them about him.

Nah, DH probably bitches about me as bad as I do about him

I don't bitch about my OH to anyone. He's not perfect, but deserves respect.

Please don't call yourself a bitch. It's really important to discuss your partner with friends and family as they can help you see if he is being abusive or if there are any red flags. Don't be sorry at all. You were confiding in your mum and sister, not posting on Facebook.

Has he magically stopped being lazy? Or have you decided to put up with it?

You weren't bitching.