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...to not understand why some drivers are so aggressive!

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AnguaUberwaldIronfoundersson · 05/06/2019 22:23

I know it’s been done to death but I’m so frustrated with the aggression of other drivers! I had a serious accident a couple of weeks ago - a car crashed into mine because the driver was distracted and drove off without exchanging details. I don’t know whether it’s made me hyper aware of others driving.

So many incidents today alone. The first was a BMW driver who was trapped behind my vehicle as the road split into two lanes. It wasn’t yet wide enough for two cars and unfortunately I was at the back of a long queue to turn right. To get around me and drive straight ahead in the clear lane, the BMW driver aggressively mounted the pavement on the left, almost hitting my car and then stuck the V’s up at me as he passed!

The second was a speed restricted to 62MPH van trundling along in the overtaking lane. I was near my junction and didn’t have time to overtake him so sat to the rear of him to avoid undertaking. This won me a lovely “wanker” hand gesture and beeping!

Three separate incidents of people not just narrowly scraping through the amber/red lights but completely ignoring them and going through on red regardless. The first was a woman completely ignoring the red light and turning left (luckily a T-junction with nothing coming the other way and no pedestrians). The second was cars cutting through the bus lane to jump the red light because the normal lane had traffic. The last was a car about four cars back from me that went through a red light to get on the motorway. The car in front of me stopped in plenty of time, as did I and the next few cars. The fourth car back decided the red light wasn’t for him and just carried on going (the lane splits as you get to the lights, he just pulled out and went for it)

Is it just me or are some drivers becoming arseholes!

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AnguaUberwaldIronfoundersson · 06/06/2019 18:38

Oh god, I’ve once had a man get out the car and bollock me because although I had right of way in a merge lane and he was behind me, he really wanted to be in front of me so by undertaking he tried to force his way past! Because I didn’t let him, he then overtook me on tram tracks, slammed on and came out the car to have a go! Bloody idiot!

I agree it’s sometimes the car you drive. I’m currently driving a Volvo and usually have no issues but all of a sudden I’m in a 19 plate courtesy car identical to my own and I’m getting wanker signals and V signs!

I used to drive an Audi A1 (I know we get a bad rap but I swear I ALWAYS used indicators) and never had any issues. Once I had a Fiat500 for a week and I could have cried driving it because not only did I hate the bloody thing, I had so many arsehole drivers cutting me up and tail gating.

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BackInTime · 06/06/2019 18:53

Indicators...no one uses indicators and idiots pulling out of car parks and junctions into oncoming traffic causing people to break unexpectedly. It's just inconsiderate and causes accidents.

Eustasiavye · 06/06/2019 20:03

Had this today at a roundabout in town. 2 lanes the left hand lane is busier and is for 2 exits, right hand lane is only for 3rd exit and always shorter queue. I'm in the correct lane and take second exit, next thing there is a car alongside me trying to push in front of me. He was in the wrong lane but thought he'd just try and cut me up. Twat.

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