Social media and relationships

[iluvbooks]

Aibu to think that a man who is in a relationship for 8/9 months who is in his late 20's and is a constant social media user should have some evidence of being in a relationship , when his girlfriend is also an avid sm user ?

At the very beginning of our relationship I commented on a tag about a reference to a girlfriend ... I posted a witty response but he immediately told me that he wasn't into social media parading his personal life for all to see . He told me in no uncertain terms that we would not be engaging in social media that way . I understood but it seems that it's just me he doesn't engage with on that platform .

My dh doesn't put anything about me on social media. He doesn't say happy birthday or happy anniversary. I've recently had an operation and he hasn't even put how proud he is of me for going through so much shit. What I'm trying to say, is that I guess everyone is different some people are private and others like to blurt out everything on there.

Yes but we are not married or living together. We are essentially in a new relationship so I would not expect him to tag me or engage with me on social media if we lived together or saw eachother everyday