To just ask for a chat

[letmerunfaraway]

I've snapped.

I've driven myself to the coast and I'm just sat here, alone in the car looking at the sea and trying not to cry.

Ive had enough.

I don't know what's wrong. Just everything. A whinging toddler. A husband who I am convinced doesn't care about me. A shithole of a house.

Everything. I just fucking hate my life.

Oh dear OP
I felt a bit overwhelmed today too. No toddlers to exhaust me (older DC) but so many bloody decisions to make about every bloody thing and DH not interested in participating in the tedium of it all.
Only survived as I went off for a swim by myself. Similar to a PP’s comments about running, I guess!

Hope you’re ok OP.

How are you now? Did you go home?

I hope you're feeling better now.

Off to bed but just wanted to say I'm thinking of you and hope you feel a little better xx

Thank you so much everyone for being there yesterday.

When I got home, I walked through the door to a big hug which was nice.

I'm also feeling a load better this morning after a good night sleep and a bit a of lie in. Let's see what today brings!

Hope you all have a lovely day x

Glad you're ok OP just take each day as it comes. You have a lovely day too xx

So glad to hear this

Hey, OP. Glad you’re feeling better. Maybe you need to pencil in some self-care time moving forward, or start a new hobby or interest or learn a new skill you’ve been meaning to. Basically, invest in YOU.

I’m really glad you’re feeling better. It’s amazing what a good nights sleep can do isn’t it?

I think a lot of us have felt how you felt yesterday, it’s just too much sometimes and there’s nothing wrong with taking a break x

I think it's helped that our little one has tantrumed at all today do! And.... I MANAGED TO HAVE A NAP this afternoon!!

Still a long way to go with asking for more help from husband etc but he's been very helpful today.

Thanks again everyone

😃

Glad you're having a nice day OP x

Talk to him the way you have talked here - he is not a mindreader - let him know exactly how you got to breaking point and how he can help - (hugs) OP

I get it op. I've spent the afternoon sobbing.

Good luck for the future x

Sorry I see it's resolved.

Sorry

I hope you're ok @carmat. Feel free to let it out to us here. This thread can be our little piece of therapy!

How is everyone doing now?

Oh I remember those days and feeling like that. Check in and say hi. how are you?