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I always feel incomplete this way

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srav23 · 01/06/2019 00:44

Hello everyone!
I'm 22 years old.
I am in a relationship with a guy since 2017 and he is 26years. So my issue with this relationship is he never shows nor says anything to me. Anything as in what he feels for me. I myself create situations to let him say something..but he never takes that chances. I'm feeling very incomplete lately and i told him about how i feel about this relationship. He always says , don't you understand me?
How?? There will be only two ways to understand.. He either should show or say what he feels abt us... I'm missing being felt like he is mine and I'm his. Every girl wishes to hear her guy saying ' u r mine ' or atleast expects him to make her feel that way. Its like i am being with a rock. He just listens to what i say and reply. That's it. I tried to breakup with him but he never lets that happen. He tries to convince me saying i too feel so much for u but i dnt have a habit of express. I dnt knw hoe to express. I am like this , can't help.
But , i feel like being not treated the way i deserve.
Please advise

OP posts:
HopefullyAnonymous · 01/06/2019 00:45

I’m sure I read this exact OP the other day Confused

srav23 · 01/06/2019 00:47

Yeah i am not getting many advises. I am in need

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Frusty · 01/06/2019 00:48

If you want to break up with him, he doesn’t get a say in whether that happens.

PookieDo · 01/06/2019 00:50

If you don’t like him as a boyfriend then break up with him
You can’t make him change into someone he isn’t
I would stop trying to create situations where he says what you want to hear he’s not stupid he doesn’t want to say them and you are wasting your energy

DownUdderer · 01/06/2019 00:50

Read up on love languages. Not every person expresses themselves in the same way.

HeddaGarbled · 01/06/2019 00:51

Break up with him tomorrow. Just do it.

Sparklesocks · 01/06/2019 01:37

I’m sorry OP but I’m not sure what you want people to say?

If you are unhappy in your relationship then you should end it. If you’ve spoken about it and are still on different wavelengths, and you’re unhappy, then I’m not sure where else you can go with it.

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