To feel guilty?

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AvocadoYUK · 30/05/2019 15:12

So me and my husband broke up 2 months ago and its been rough.
I started chatting to an old friend who I always fancied but never made a move. We've ended up sexting a little and flirting lots!! Honestly I haven't felt sexy in months (especially with a baby) so was really surprised about how much I've been fantasizing about him.
But I've found myself waking up today feeling really guilty about it. I know if I knew my ex was doing it I'd feel shiity. I get that's totally a double standard.... am I being unreasonable feeling guilty? X

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WhoWasIt · 30/05/2019 15:18

YABU OP. There is no reason to feel guilty if you are sure that your marriage is dead in the water. You've been apart for 2 months and you're only human. It may be a boost to your self esteem, but at the moment its completely risk / hassle free fun.
You don't know 100% that your exH hasn't been doing the same, so don't dwell on it.
I don't think you have any reason to feel guilty at all. Enjoy it

WhoWasIt · 30/05/2019 15:19

I meant YABU to feel guilty.

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AvocadoYUK · 30/05/2019 16:20

Yeah... he ended things with me I just feel like should i be waiting? Is this rushing to feel like this Etc. X

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WhoWasIt · 30/05/2019 16:23

No, you shouldn't be waiting. You just follow what your instinct tell you. Seriously, you have no need to feel guilty about your own pleasure. He ended it and i assume he feels no guilt over that or his feelings, so sext away to your guilt free hearts content.

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