Birthday blues

[loutyre]

It's my 30th today and I'm currently sat at home with my 18 month old.....bored.

I woke up to nothing, no card, no gift. My husbands first words this morning "please will you pleasure me?"

I'm annoyed. I get it as we get older birthdays are just another day but for the past year I haven't got anything off him for Xmas, Mother’s Day, Valentine's Day or birthday.

Seen as it's my 30th I kinda wanted abit of something.

It's pouring rain, he's taken my car, all friends and family are at work so I'm just sat here just fed up if I'm honest.

Happy birthday!

That sucks. I'd text him and say "as it's my 30th I'd like you to make an effort this evening and we're getting a takeaway for dinner". You shouldn't have to ask, but it sounds as though if you don't ask you'll have a totally disappointing day!

Happy 30th

That's pretty shitty of him that would really hurt me. You should 100% talk to him about it see if he can redeem himself for later to take you somewhere nice.

Really hope your day gets better

Don't leave it until he's finished work text him now give him something to think about

Happy Birthday.

Sorry its a shit one so far. Us there anyone else you can contact to meet up with.

I'd definitely let him know you're pissed off, of course you shouldn't have to.

Can you take little one out somewhere?

Your husband is an arsehole. If he's asking for a wank before wishing you a happy 30th birthday he really wants showing the door.

Happy birthday op

Happy birthday!! Sorry you're having a rubbish day, that's really not on. I'd be gutted! Any chance your husband or friends could have organised you something special for this evening or over the weekend?

Definitely text him anyway to say you're having a pants day, it might make him jump into action a bit. And I agree with above that you should order your favourite takeaway for dinner, possibly with a nice bottle of wine? I hope your day gets better!

I'd almost be more pissed off he asked you to pleasure him, it just sounds awful. Dies he ever pleasure you?!
Does he know it's your birthday? If so he is even more of a twat.

These threads always make me sad because it is usually the case that the woman makes loads of effort for their OH & the man does sweet FA

Also happy birthday

I'm pregnant at the minute although I'm only 8 weeks so he knows I don't want pleasure and I don't want to pleasure him at all now because I'm annoyed. He knows I'm mad my face says it all. No this weekend we are going over to his family in another town so he can watch Liverpool with his uncles and brother. He text earlier saying he is going to try and finish early but I guarantee we won't be doing anything. He will probably suggest Nando's if anything. It's just put me in a stinking mood.

Urgh. Him just uttering them words would spoil my day....urgh.
I honestly wouldn't be going anywhere with the guy. Even if he came home with diamonds.

The day gets better....he rang at lunch asked me to go up to a&e with him....we have just got home. So I have spent my birthday sat at home miserable then to be sat in a&e all afternoon. Brill