For the past 6 months I have completely cut my mums side of the family off. I have two children, my first I wasn’t with the dad when I was pregnant so my mum was there a lot for me, at the birth etc. Four years later I met my now partner and daughters dad. From the minute I got pregnant my mum resented everything, from not being able to attend scans, him being involved with my son, him moving in. Just generally doesn’t like him. We was living in her house which she was never in, as she has a long term partner and stayed there and only came back to do errands for his mum and dad. One day she’s came back and told me that he had to leave.. of course I left with him and our kids. She was still having contact with my son, not my daughter as if I’m honest she’s has never shown any interest in her. I don’t know if that’s because she couldn’t control things like she could with my son? Anyway, my daughters dad said he didn’t want my mum around our daughter. Understandable as she had just made us homeless and said to me she didn’t care about not seeing her. My mum has gone to extremes of calling women’s aid saying he beats me (he’s never laid a hand on me) retained his I.d for a year, told social services he’s a drug user (he’s not), blames him for me taking an overdose, let me son down at Christmas, abused me at my sons nursery and in the street calling me a ‘c*nt’. She has plastered everything on social media as if she’s a saint. She messages me asking to speak to the kids but I can’t have that kind of toxic person around me or my kids. As soon as she’s in the picture I’m upset and angry and me and my partner row sometimes. My son sees how upset I get and that’s no good for him. I’ve now lost contact with my nan as her and my mum are close and I can’t trust her with thing I may tell her. Don’t really know what replies I’m expecting to get o just needed to vent as I’m sure my partners sick of hearing about it as so am I talking about it!😩