Hi, I think I’m moreso after reassurance from people who have been through this. My ex shouted out his car window today that the kids are meeting his new GF 🙄
It’s been the agreed 9 months. But I’m still left feeling hurt and angry and upset.
He’s cheated on this woman so many times and lied to her so many times and still tries it on with me and tries calling me etc but I never pick up since I’ve gone no contact.
It upsets me he’s done this to me and the kids as I wanted to save our family but he chose this other woman. They’ve had so many arguments.
I just can’t see why he’s want to involve our kids in their clearly messed up relationship! Despite cheating etc he thinks they’ll be together forever!! She still believes his lies etc.
I just feel like this is the final nail In the coffin. I think he’s making a huge mistake as this woman doesn’t appear to be very nice and he’s thrown away an amazing family. Now he spends all his time with hers whilst I’m paying our mortgage and struggling and he pays for everything for them and going on holiday with them etc. I just hate him so much for what he’s done and now it’s going to hurt that my kids have to meet her and I’ll have to hear about her. How do I get rid of all this hurt and anger and when will it all go? I feel betrayed. He’s not the man I once knew and it’s so hard to accept.
The kids have been through so much because of him. Just all seems unfair he’s making out he’s living a fairytale with a new family and I can’t go out or do anything as he barely has the kids and I have no family around. Feel like I’ll be alone forever whilst he rubs his new relationship in mine and the kids faces.