Hi all, I’m fully expecting everyone to tell me to mind my own business. But as someone who has had her heartbroken by ‘players’ a few times I think my brother needs to buck up.
Basically, he’s 21. Never had a serious girlfriend. I’m not sure why. He’s a average looking man I guess but I think he’s quite immature for his age and immature with relationships but has had a few flings that I’m aware of. He is quite open about all this to his family and friends.
A while ago. He was seeing a girl. She was 17, him 21. I had no problem with that age gap. I’ve always dated older guys. As she wasn’t old enough to go out, he would often go out meeting other girls. He stopped the fling with the 17 year old and started dating a girl or 19 as she was old enough to go out, that finished he went back the 17 (now 18) year old now back to the 19 heat d. Now a few months on he is still chatting, meeting with and leading both of them on but not really interested in either. He now has a date with another female (I can barely keep up myself so apologies for confusing everyone) as well as freely admitting he’s going to get out about on his soon to be holiday.
These girls have no idea who much of a dick he’s being tbh and not aware of each other.
I feel for the younger one most of all. She seemed like a sweet girl when I seen her at my mums when she was staying and I was visiting. They work together so she can’t not see him most days either!
I’ve been through similar myself with boys when I was younger and I remember feeling so low and heartbroken. He doesn’t seem to see it himself!
I don’t feel it’s my place to have this chat to him but my mum and stepdad seem to laugh it off.
I mean if this was a female playing around she would be called a s**g but it’s alright for him to do so??