He never says nor shows what he feels for me!

[srav23]

Hello everyone!
I'm 22 years old.
I am in a relationship with a guy since 2017 and he is 26years. So my issue with this relationship is he never shows nor says anything to me. Anything as in what he feels for me. I myself create situations to let him say something..but he never takes that chances. I'm feeling very incomplete lately and i told him about how i feel about this relationship. He always says , don't you understand me?
How?? There will be only two ways to understand.. He either should show or say what he feels abt us... I'm missing being felt like he is mine and I'm his. Every girl wishes to hear her guy saying ' u r mine ' or atleast expects him to make her feel that way. Its like i am being with a rock. He just listens to what i say and reply. That's it. I tried to breakup with him but he never lets that happen. He tries to convince me saying i too feel so much for u but i dnt have a habit of express. I dnt knw hoe to express. I am like this , can't help.
But , i feel like being not treated the way i deserve.
Please advise

You're so young. Go see what else is out there. Don't be tied to someone who doesn't make you feel amazing & don't look to a guy (or girl) to tell you how awesome you are. Lots of ppl do struggle to talk about their feelings, lots need to & lots don't. He might be able to as he matures, you might need less as you mature, who knows. You are not his & that's not a healthy thing to say or need. You are your own independent person, go be one.

I sounds like you are demonstrative and he is just not by nature comfortable with emotional expression. Does he treat you well? Is he thoughtful, kind and considerate? Do you laugh together? If so you may just have to accept him as he is. Or is he actually cold towards you?

If he doesnt say it or show it. He probably doesnt feel it.

There is no 'he wont let us break up'. If you want to break up, that's it.

What does he do to stop you?

If you aren’t happy and you’ve tried talking about it with him to no success, it might be time to reassess what you want and if he’s the right person for you