I have a friend who I met several years ago when I was going through a pretty hard time. She was very kind to me and we saw each other often after that. Then she got religion and was confirmed. I went to her confirmation. During it, she had to tell the congregation about something good she had done. She told them about how she had helped me which would be fine if it wasnt for the fact she really over egged it. I was according to her practically destitute and suicidal, had no friends and she'd basically swept me up from the gutter and saved me. This was a gross exaggeration and I was mightily pissed off with her for a while. I told her how I felt and she just brushed it off. Since then I've had another baby and she is desperate to meet her so I've relented and arranged to have lunch with her tomorrow with my dd. I am dreading it and can feel myself getting stressed already. We have totally opposite views on politics Brexit etc and she thinks she has the high ground due to her relationship with God. In the past I have redecorated her house, lent her clothes etc so it's not all one sided. We used to be close and that makes me feel sad. Would you go?