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Mammylamb · 26/05/2019 14:43

Hi,

I was wondering if any Muslim mumsnetters could suggest a suitable Eid gift for my neighbours. They are a family with 3 children. Thanks

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TooManyPaws · 26/05/2019 14:49

My colleague always chooses vegetarian when eating out to be sure of halal so sweets marked either halal or suitable for vegetarians would no doubt be very welcomed by the children. I think that anything you would give for Christmas or birthday bearing in mind a 'suitable for vegetarians' would be appreciated.

1CantPickAName · 26/05/2019 15:15

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eightsixandtwo · 26/05/2019 15:18

I've bought some dates and a diffuser if that helps. I know my colleague who's been fasting breaks her fast with a date so thought I'd start with that!! Smile

TheWernethWife · 26/05/2019 15:18

I used to buy boxes of good chocolates for my neighbours. Make sure they are suitable for vegetarians (no gelatine) and don't contain alcohol.

Teddybear45 · 26/05/2019 15:19

Hotel chocolate chocolates (the non-alcoholic ones)

noenergy · 26/05/2019 15:30

Yes as mentioned above suitable for vegetarians isn't enough, need to make sure there is no alcohol.

TheWernethWife · 26/05/2019 15:35

noenergy I did mention not containing alcohol in my post

TheQueef · 26/05/2019 15:39

Whatever they bought you for Xmas in a halal version.

SkintAsASkintThing · 26/05/2019 16:17

Sweets always go down well.

My DD used to be best friends with a girl who was Muslim, after years of spending a fortune on Amazon buying halal sweets I found out my corner shop which I use most days also sold loads of halal sweets, haribo etc at normal prices.

So if you have a good ethnic type shop that will be a good place to start.

Guadalquivir19 · 26/05/2019 16:26

I've bought family board games & flowers for my Muslim friends & that's gone down a treat. I stay clear of chocolates & treats because they get so much & end up donating half of it to the food bank. People who visit over the Ramadaan & Eid period give each other mainly food gifts as well so it's easy to get a pile up.

Mummyshark2019 · 26/05/2019 16:41

Fragrance candles, flowers, plants,

makingmammaries · 26/05/2019 16:43

I once brought a Muslim friend dates for Eid and she muttered something about how she’d been eating them all Ramadan

BogglesGoggles · 26/05/2019 16:45

For some reason when I was growing g up it was the done thing to gift soap and handkerchiefs but I’m not sure your neighbours would approve.

Notsosimple · 26/05/2019 18:44

Please don’t buy dates, as we eat them every single day during Ramadan, a board game, a tin of biscuits, sweets or chocolates for the kids would be nice (which are suitable for vegetarians) and a bunch of flowers for the mummy.

sergeilavrov · 26/05/2019 19:04

In the Middle East, we always tried to avoid dates like Notsosimple said, because they're so plentiful throughout the month. We often gave a nice basket of fresh baklawa or even make knafeh with some fresh kaak bread. My dh always made a bottle of syrup for them because he likes his knafeh even sweeter. Something homemade is always appreciated, and sweets are fun for children.

firawla · 26/05/2019 19:09

Another vote for not dates, it’s a nice guesture but we are honestly swimming in them every year and I’m sure other families will be the same? So I would say choc, biscuits etc preferable at Eid. The board game idea is also really thoughtful!

Shouldershrugger · 26/05/2019 19:36

Baklava is my go to.. or Indian sweets, rasgulla or rasmalai...

Shouldershrugger · 26/05/2019 19:37

Btw op, i think its very kind of you to give a gift

Doobydoo · 26/05/2019 19:43

Ambala is brilliant. Online shop....have a look.

Meangirls36 · 26/05/2019 20:13

Baklava , fruit basket some nice napkins. Roses or a house plant.

MarchionessOfCholmondeley · 26/05/2019 20:27

Thank you for this thread. I was wondering the same myself. I work for a doctor who gave me a very generous present at Christmas and I've been desperately wondering what to buy him for Eid. Some great suggestions on this thread, thank you.

Mammylamb · 26/05/2019 23:38

Lovely! Thanks so much everyone for your feedback xx

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