I really don't like my sister, in fact if I'd never see her again that'd make me really happy. (Well maybe that's an exaggeration but I'd certainly would be more at peace with myself). Every time I see her I end up in tears. She's nosey and thinks that all of the advice she gives is always right. I can't stand her attitude and I know she'll never change. She's also very strange with money (to the point of denying some inheritance to my mum as it wasn't in the will, but my uncle -her brother- told her something else). She recently had a baby, we were chatting and then talked about my mum's visit when mine is due (in November). It all went downhill from there and well I went back to the same place of never wanting to see her again. I'm supposed to go and visit her in Switzerland but at £700 for 4 days I simply cannot afford it. My husband who is lovely and woke up to comfort me while I was crying in the wee hours had the idea of sending her a letter and something for the baby. What would you include? I guess a babygrow some bottles and a letter. I still don't know what to write in the letter but I guess for the sake of both babies she should try to respect my views and that if she has nothing positive to say, to simply not say it. Any other ideas? She does love me, but the way she shows it just simply don't work with me. In a way I'd like her to understand that if she loves me (which she does) she would keep her distance and let me be. I just want to get out of this place of dreading telling her I'm not going and be back in my "limbo". Of course I want to meet my nephew but my MH comes first.
I genuinely can't think of happy moment between us in the past 15 years. For my mum it was very hard to understand this but after last year she finally got it.