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Whiny 8month old

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Constantine1986 · 25/05/2019 09:21

So DD is 8months, nearly 9months. She's never been a 'chilled' baby but recently has gotten much worse. She seems to whine almost all the time at the moment - whether I'm playing with her or she's playing by herself, whether we're out or at home. She sleeps well, eats well and isn't poorly. I rotate toys so that she doesn't get bored. She is teething so I know that doesn't help. She can't crawl so don't know if its frustration.

She usually looks directly at me when she's whining even if DH is in the room. Up until now I usually try to distract her with toys or pick her up. Is this the right thing to do or am I making it worse and should I respond less? Thank you!

(I tried posting this on parenting/behaviour board but no reply so posted here for more traffic. Am new here so apologies if not the done thing!)

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Cornettoninja · 25/05/2019 09:43

Hate to say it but some kids/people are just naturally whiny. My dd developed the whiny tone long before she had the words to dress it up.

Infuriatingly she now tells me to stop whining! Cheek of it! And not to be pedantic but actually I’m nagging love Grin

Discreet earbuds and a good playlist?

Bambamber · 25/05/2019 09:56

I think at 8 months I would do what you're doing, she's still a baby and I think there's supposed to be a developmental leap at about 8 months. My daughter was still quite clingy at 8 months and I persevered and gave her lots of cuddles and she naturally grew out of it when she hit about 14 months. Everyone will do things differently though, do what you feel works for you.

PenguinWings · 25/05/2019 10:13

Yes, just hang on and keep reassuring her. Teething is hard, but there will be another phase along in a bit.

maddiemookins16mum · 25/05/2019 10:21

DD was like this, a proper whingebag. It stopped almost overnight as soon as she started walking as she was too busy getting into everything to remember she was supposed to be whinging 🤣🤣

WithAllIntenseAndPurposes · 25/05/2019 10:28

My last child is still whiny at 3. Was a whiny newborn whiny baby and whiny toddler. I think it's just personality type at times but you do have my sympathy as it's draining!

AlmostAlwyn · 25/05/2019 13:05

Sounds like you're doing a good job listening to your instincts and picking her up when she wants you to! Teething is a tough time and it must be frustrating to not be able to get to the things and places you'd like!

Hang in there - I'm sure it'll pass. She'll be on the move before you know it and you'll have a whole lot of other things to worry about! Grin

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