To ask what’s the longest length you’ve been annoyed with dh for

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I feel like I’m pissed off with my dh for about 2 months now and I’m hoping it will pass. Has anyone else went through a long stretch feeling like this and then went on to be ok again?

About 2 hours maybe
Not 2 months! What did he do ?

It’s what he hasn’t done that I’m really fed up with ie helping in house / with dd

I’m currently at 2 years. Since he died and left me solo parenting so I know where you are coming from not getting any help at the house

How old is DD?

Sorry to hear that I hope this doesn’t sound awful at least he has an excuse.

Dd is almost 4

Always annoyed at something. So is he! But we actually let it out straight away and don't hold grudges. 30 sec "blow out" and then we are back to having a laugh over Come dine with me.
I think it's important to let it out asap and move on.

Simmering something under the surface for months is dangerous

How much house work and parenting is he doing?

About 27 years to date...........

I find that over the years, I've stopped the whole inner resentment thing and if he upsets me, he knows about it. We may have a brief argument, then we can both deal with it. And he's the same.

If you're not happy, then verbalise it. That gives him chance to make an effort to change. If he chooses to ignore it, then that's a whole other issue.

No it doesn’t sound awful west ! Yes he does have a great excuse .

34 years and counting, much like peonies

We annoy each other, we get over it... or bury it cos it wasn't worth any time in the first place.

About 6 inches although he claims it is more.

Teacake 😂😂😂😂

Like PP a number of hours at the most - never two months. Sounds like a major issue - what's caused you to feel annoyed? Have you two spoken about whatever it is?

Months? Sounds like the start of the end with my exH years ago.
My DH, couple of hours max and I think that’s been twice in total! Usually it’s discussed immediately and cuddled better, neither of us has intentionally set out to hurt the other so want to sort it.

I’ve been annoyed enough to not talk to him for a few days before, mainly due to his sheer laziness around the house and being so clueless.

In general though, if I’m annoyed I make it known, we have a row and then it’s over.

15 yrs.

I think we have turned the corner and things are looking up!