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Sharing apartment

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Cloudyyy · 23/05/2019 10:26

Me and DH play tennis with a club locally whenever we can. He’s a lot better than me these days because I took time a significant amount of time off training whilst pregnant. Anyway, it’s somethign we enjoy doing. He’s been invited to a mixed doubles event with three others from the club in a few weeks for the weekend. All fine, except one of the other women is single and very flirty with my husband. They played a lot of mixed doubles while I was away from the club and she seems to feel some sort of ownership over him. She’s very full-on and has already made jokes about where she’ll be leaving her lingerie out to dry, so nobody should look?! I work full time and she has suggested they all get an apartment together, take a day off each side of the weekend and make a weekend of it partying. My husband (and the other two, who are married) have since invited their partners. I said we’d be happy to go but would prefer our own apartment and have booked a smaller suite in the same building - we can obviously still attend the nights out and spent lots of time together, but I’m not comfortable with sharing with her the entire time. Is this unreasonable? She’s now making constant comments about what a shame it is that we can’t all share together. AIBU? I definitely trust husband, just would find it annoying all weekend to be honest. Any suggestions as to what to say back to the “what a shame” comments? Thank you

OP posts:
RestingBitchFaced · 23/05/2019 11:37
  • 'maybe you should find your own husband'
Trebla · 23/05/2019 11:43

I have terrible flatulance and wouldn't want to burden you with the effects.

Trebla · 23/05/2019 11:44

DH and I dont get much timw away together and I down want to disturb you with the sound of us shagging all weekend

Thehop · 23/05/2019 11:44

Ignore them.

Or “not a shame for us we can’t wait!”

Trebla · 23/05/2019 11:44

I'm a grown up and prefer my own space

Trebla · 23/05/2019 11:45

Or take no notice and enjoy yourself anyway....

SupaNintendoChalmers · 23/05/2019 11:46

"My husband and I like to have really loud dirty sex, so I doubt you want to share an apartment with us"

UnicornBrexit · 23/05/2019 11:51

~ we like our own space to get away from overbearing people ?

~ you're behiving like a middle aged swinger

desparate4sleep · 23/05/2019 12:06

YANBU at all she sounds like a desperate attention seeker who was probably planning on being "accidentally" caught by your DH in her sexy nightie. Tell her your are looking forward to the romantic break and what a shame she is single and you hope she doesn't feel like a goosebury.

PregnantSea · 23/05/2019 12:16

She sounds very annoying.

The good thing is that almost everyone finds people like this annoying. Allow her to continue to make a twat of herself and just enjoy your weekend away with your husband. Do some stuff with them but plenty of other stuff just the two of you. You'll probably have a nice weekend.

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