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Is he odd

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fluffysoxfortwo · 21/05/2019 21:09

Newish relationship.. just a couple of
Months . Getting to know e eachother a bit better but a couple of things are making me feel uneasy..
he seems to light up in male company, not so much in mine . He comments on the attractiveness of random men all the time but not me. Dislikes make up on me, despisesanything false ... lashes/ long nails / tan etc
Not hugely interested in intercourse or oral but likes kissing me. Spends an extraordinary amount of time with his friends and his family in lieu of me . Likes to keep us seperate . Aibu here ?

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MyNameIsArthur · 22/05/2019 13:31

Maybe you could remain just as friends as both of you get on in other ways xx

RatherBeRiding · 22/05/2019 13:39

Do people's sex drives improve over time? I'd say the opposite unless there is a physical or mental reason why he's not into sex - medication, sexual insecurity etc.

If after only 2 months you're not getting enough sex, then this is likely to be as good as it gets and it's NOT going to improve.

And the thing about make-up would be a massive irritant to me. My DP also prefers the natural look, and tells me I am gorgeous whether I have full make-up, or not! The difference is he would never try to persuade me directly or indirectly to ditch make-up, false tan, nail varnish etc etc.

It sounds like hard work, and you are obviously questioning the validity of the relationship and at such an early stage that can't be good.

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