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Hadenoughofitall441 · 20/05/2019 22:50

Had a catch up with my bestie today, been a long time coming despite speaking everyday on the phone. She’s been feeling down lately as she says she thinks she’s fallen out of love with her DP. To make matters worse she thinks he’s cheating on her, but the worrying thing is she said it would be best if he was then she do3snt have to break up with him. I asked her what made her think he was cheating as when I’ve seen them together he absolutley adores her, she said he never leaves his phone down. I didn’t find this suspicious as he is a area manager so he’s got a lot of people under him. She said even at night never leaves it. She said she’s looked at messages on his Apple Watch but nothing on there apart from a million messages from his best friend who until recently I thought was a lesbian but apparently he told my DP that she’s not. They’ve got 2 dc and have been together over 10 years. She thinks if they break up everything will be better. I’m at a loss at what to say, they are a great couple and I think she’s just finding reasons to not be with him. Any advice I can try to give my friend... ☹️

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SleepingStandingUp · 21/05/2019 00:30

I'd encourage her to follow her heart, if she's making excuses to not be with him and wishing he was Havin an affair, it doesn't sound like she wants to make it work.
Maybe mention couples counselling but she'd have to be honest with him.

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