Hi guys,
This is a bit of a long one, but my head is all over the place so any advice would be greatly appreciated 
Me and my partner have just found out we're expecting and due in November, we had mixed emotions to begin with as I already have a DD from a previous relationship, but me and my partner have been together for just shy of 2 years. Initially we were both in shock and I was unsure because the relationship is relatively new and one toddler is hard enough how am I going to cope with 2!? We're in the process of buying a family home and now we are over the initial shock we're both really happy.
Anyway, we're 15+5 weeks gone and everybody we have told so far (in-laws and close friends mainly) have been really supportive and are genuinely happy for us - however, with my mum its a completely different story.
While I understand been a tough 6 months for her as she is in the middle of a messy divorce from my step-dad who have been together for about 23 years, she really hasn't taken the news well. I have really been the only person who has been there for her recently and I considered our relationship to be really strong, but for the last few weeks she has been trying to talk me into getting an abortion, her reasoning behind not agreeing with us having a baby is that it will look bad on her while her divorce is going through, my DD is at a good age now where I can do more while she's with her Dad like go for days out with her or weekends away, but apparently me having a baby would stop her from being able to go places and do things with me. She also says it's embarrassing for me and she won't be telling anybody because (and I quote) she is "mortified". She keeps bringing up that I will have 2 children to 2 different Dads which I had already stressed about (bare in mind she has 3 other children with my step-dad so I feel its a bit pot calling kettle).
I feel like out of everybody she would be the person who would be supportive but its really deflating and getting me down, I feel like her reasoning for reacting badly to the news is purely down to selfishness and as it stands I feel like maybe she's better not being a part of my life which sounds harsh but it's upsetting me that much.
Has anybody been through anything similar or have any thoughts or advice on how to handle it? Sorry it's so long!
Thank you