In feeling a bit lonely...

[Breastfeedingworries]

Basically single Mum of 6 month old, recently mended a friendship, she’s with my ex, they go together after we spilt but it was very painful and horrible. Anyway we weren’t friends during pregnacy only just made up.

I’m really happy about it and although I’m 100 percent over ex wouldn’t want him back tonight I feel low. She’s said tomorrow she’ll bring left overs for lunch and it’s like i’ll Be eating his cooking?! Isn’t that weird!?

He’s charming man when you’re with him and think I feel lonely ugly and single. Not saying no to free food, he was always a great cook. 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

I just feel lonely, swiping on tinder and it’s such a cold meaningless place. I want a cuddle and someone to be there for me. Bit tearful.

Hey. No advice unfortunately, I'm in a similar situation. Sometimes I'm lonely, sometimes it's also great being completely independent again. Hope you feel better

I'm in a marriage and I feel completely lonely. No tender cuddles and nice words spoken to each other, only bickering, passive aggressiveness and silent seething. I'm not allowed to touch him unless it's part of sex. I feel terribly empty and lonely 😢

Aww to you both!

Wonder if I’m hormonal, just bit down. Got my baby at least to snuggle with. She’s very cuddly, and she’s asleep on me (bad habit) I want cuddles and company x

User, I'm so sorry! That's absolutely awful. Do you get anywhere by talking to him?

Breastfeedingworries, I also snuggle with my DS. He's 9 months now and is starting to show a real cheeky personality!

@User19163538 god that really upset me reading what you have posted. Big hugs, and LTB (never said that on MN before). you sound lovely xx

OP, you are such a strong woman to be able to be friends again with this woman! You're the better person. and you will find someone much better than your ex. and i would be tempted to say how much better his cooking was when you lived with him when she brinns the food round, but im a bitch.

OP you are a stronger woman than me. I couldn't be friends with her. She shouldn't have got involved. Are you sure they got together after you ended?

Yeah 100 percent sure because he went back to his ex before me and got her pregnant. 😞 he’s a piece of work but i want the friendship back as she’s actually a lovely person her grandparents passed away the same time as he was pursuing her so she looks on it all very differently. She thinks he’s misunderstood and is ready to settle now. She’s also from an incredibly wealthy family, so funny he met her through me and I bet she was his plan all along.

They got together 6 months after we ended so no reason to believe their was an over lap too, and being that his ex rang me in tears as she had no idea about my friend.

Anyway not sure if she’s coming today anyway.

I’m feeling better today too.

Hope you’re okay user xx