Should STBXH’s GF stop interfering

[TracyDraco]

In our divorce?
We had everything agreed, consent order had drafted just needed signing. Until his new GF came on the scene, then I can only assume she stuck her nose in as he went back on what we’d agreed 🤷🏻‍♀️.

I don't think you should assume it's all down to your ex having a new girlfriend.

Of course she may have pointed out something to him but at the end of the day it's all up to him how he reacts.

How do you know it's her?

I don’t obviously, I’m speculating. It’s just too much of a coincidence for me. Even if she pointed something out our divorce is still none of her business, that’s what he pays his solicitor to do!
I put a substantial amount of money into our house upfront when we first bought it (pre-marriage) we agreed I would get that back, split any profit equally after mortgage paid and keep our pensions.
He now wants to split equity 60:40 to me, keep personal pensions and personal debt separate.
His pension value is 5x mine, his future earning potential is greater than mine. We have 2DCs. I guess I’m feeling frustrated because It’s slowed everything up, cost us both more in solicitors fees, divorce would have been be done and dusted by now if we’d stuck to the original agreement.

Who's got the personal debt? You or him?

We’ve each got our own debt. I don’t know if all his debts could be classed as marital debt, he’s had a few GFs since we split up. He insists this one is permanent.
It was a while after we separated that we started the divorce process.