To be too scared to have sex with DH but not want to tell him

[LittleRoundBall]

Currently pregnant for the 7th time (none successful).

This time I'm just absolutely petrified of having sex. I know logically that it's not the cause of my miscarriages but last time I miscarried it was the morning after we'd dtd and I just can't get that out of my head now.

Sorry if tmi but my and DH dtd quite regularly usually and it's not because I just don't feel like it because I'm tired etc... Because I do. But I'm just too frightened.

Me and DH usually talk about everything and anything but for some reason I just don't want to tell him this and instead am making excuses like not feeling well. I guess I just feel a bit daft!

Tell him, am sure he'd rather know and support you than think you don't fancy him

You don't have to have sex. I suffered several miscarriages anyway we were advised it was best not to have sex because of my condition and we managed fine for 9 months! You marriage is more than just sexual intimacy, my dh was understanding and it was fine ☺️