relationship

[Gem111]

I am being unreasonable? My partner asks for sex ect every night and when I say no goes in a mood. We have a 11 week old baby and he doesnt do night feeds or let's me have a lie in. When I tell him I'm tired he says I'm like a old woman. He is making our relationship fail. Which is not what I want.

What's the issue?

That you say no or how he behaves when you say no?

Never, ever, do anything you do not want to do just to appease him. You are not his play thing, solely there to tend to his needs. He does not get to demand, or pressurise you into doing anything.

Let him sulk. You deserve better.

Ha, I still say no and DS is five months and sleeps through, I have enough of someone grabbing at my boobs all day. Tell him to fuck off.

YANBU!! The no sex sulk is the worst. I used to give into this all the time with my ex. I realise now he was coercing me and I really think this is a kind of emotional abuse----/if it happens a lot.

Please stick to your guns. He has needs. He has a right to want sex sure. He has no right to have sex. Discuss with him if you can, but if that's all he can come up with (calling you old etc) then I'd be reconsidering the parameters of my relationship, if you catch my drift.

If you don't want Sex he should just accept it .. to be fair you have an 11 week old baby and your partner does not help with night feeds nor give you a lie in ... does he help at all !!!

Maybe if he helped more you would be less tired and might want sex naturally ..

My partner does help in the day just to clear that up

It doesn't matter that he helps, you don't owe him sex. Next time he fills tell him it's very unattractive and will just make you even less likely to be in the mood