Last night my partner went out with his friends, clearly drank to excess as he appeared rather drunk when he came home in the early hours. Struggling to unlock the front door, banging around being loud etc. Fair enough, little bit annoying and then we all went to sleep. A few hours later lm woken to the sound of him urinating outside our bedroom door. I flick the light on, tell him to stop and go to the bathroom which he does. I then ask him to clean it up. He refuses, is still rather drunk and rolls back into bed. I have now asked him again to clean it up. He again refused, l asked for a 3rd time, he got angry saying he’s tired and it doesn’t need doing. I pointed out the smell of wee will stick and l don’t want to smell it. He will do it when he feels like it 🙄 apparently. Oh and l shouldn’t be annoyed and aggressively he told me l need to “shut up”. Fine, he can pay and organise for new laminate to be laid
What makes it worse is we are trying to conceive, have been for a while and aren’t getting anywhere. We agreed to only drink lightly between now and the end of the year -lm 40 in the new year so our odds will probably be fairly poor by then. I now feel like a right idiot as l have been eating well, drinking lightly / occasionally, having acupuncture, taking supplements etc. Whereas he goes and gets absolutely annihilated and then speaks to me like that! I’m also wondering if he took drugs as well, as he was acting quite oddly and chewing the inside of his mouth
We were meant to be going to the theatre today, lm probably going to see if one of my friends can come with me instead