I'm talking about the kinds of clothes that get worn and washed frequently like t-shirts, long sleeve tops, shirts, vests, leggings, underpants, jersey dresses and joggers. Not so much things like pretty dresses that only get worn on occasions and never see the inside of a washing machine.
I find too many things from high street shops (even high end high street) don't last that long. The seams come unstitched, thin straps snap, they have trailing threads or the black things wash out grey. I find black joggers are particularly bad for looking worn and grey (especially the Nike ones). I had to throw out a White Company T-shirt yesterday because it had so many little holes in it.
For pretty dresses, you can get away with quite cheap ones from wherever, as long as they don't look like they're already falling apart when they're in the shop as they don't get used day in day out and and are often dry clean only.
I don't want to have to bin things that look too shabby to wear and would obviously be inappropriate to give to a charity shop.
It's not my washing that's the problem - I always wash on low temperatures, follow washing instructions and a lot of other people have made the same comments.
I have things from M&S, Topshop, Zara and so on from 15 years ago that are still in quite good condition, but the things I've had from the same shops in more recent years are awful quality.
I don't like to buy tons of clothes, I just want to have nice quality plain basics which don't date and I can regularly wear and wash without them falling apart. I've always been of the buy plainer clothes and collect very nice accessories camp so I don't end up with an overflowing wardrobe of pretty things that I never use.
I'd be very grateful for recommendations on where is good to get the various basics and everyday clothes from which are of good quality and last!