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DIY noise bank holiday

39 replies

namechangemyself · 06/05/2019 08:58

I know this has already been done, but want to ask this myself...

AIBU to be frustrated that my neighbours are having an extension done, and that they start very loud work at 8am every day. This includes every Sunday for the past 5 weeks, and they started at 7:50 this morning. Loud banging and drilling.

I understand that it has to be done, but why so early on a bank holiday? I wish they'd just wait until at least 9/10am! Are there rules around this?

WIBU to have a polite quiet word as looks like the work is going to be going on for quite some time?

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namechangemyself · 06/05/2019 09:37

They have builders in. I'm going to have a shower now and go and speak to them after. Don't think the neighbours are in (been away all weekend) but will speak to the builders.

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BookwormMe2 · 06/05/2019 09:38

Ah, I think I remember now - people were arguing about what constitutes DIY and what's building work and it was about an old person's house getting done up to be sold because he was going into a home with dementia. They were cutting down trees and replacing windows.

This is very different though - this is an extension, proper construction work.

namechangemyself · 06/05/2019 09:38

Being a single mum to a 6 month old and utterly exhausted possibly makes it seem worse than it is.

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namechangemyself · 06/05/2019 09:39

Sorry I don't know why I wrote DIY. It's not DIY it's a huge extension. I'm very tired...

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BookwormMe2 · 06/05/2019 09:40

namechangemyself Be polite but firm. Say you appreciate the neighbour has instructed them to work today, but as they must be fully aware as professional tradesmen that the council is very clear there should be no Bank Holiday construction work and if they continue you'll be forced to speak to the council about the noise nuisance, because right now the work is making your house shake. Any decent builder would pack up and go home.

PamelaX · 06/05/2019 09:47

the last thread was classic MN!

"OP, it doesn't bother ME so suck it up"
"OP, my neighbours are worst, so how dare you complaining"
"OP, it doesn't matter if it's illegal or against all local rules, I think it's fine, so you are an unreasonable snowflake"

GrinGrinGrin

PutyourtoponTrevor · 06/05/2019 09:49

Some people are just inconsiderate arseholes, next door were emptying a load of bottles/cans into their recycling bin at 5.45 this morning. I was not impressed

namechangemyself · 06/05/2019 09:50

@PutyourtoponTrevor it's so unnecessary! I have a 6 month old and cringe when he wakes up at night in case the neighbours can hear. I tiptoe around if I'm up super late as I know part of our lounge adjoins to their bedroom.

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SweetMarmalade · 06/05/2019 09:51

I wouldn’t go around demanding they stop as it’s a BH. You and your dm have to live next door to these people.

What I would do is speak to the builders and the NDN when they return from their break asking if weekend work can be at least started a little later. NDN might not know the builders have started so early, the probably want to finish early being BH.

We had our kitchen done a few years ago and to cut costs we used a tradesman we knew but he could only do the majority of the work at weekends. As we’re considerate NDN we told him to arrive from 9am Sat and 10am Sun. We had also informed our NDN that works would be going on for a number of weeks.

Our NDN weren’t as considerate when he undertook the fitting of his kitchen himself! It went on for MONTHS and often included early weekend wake up calls. However, as Ds was waking up early anyway I let it go.

Know that although it’s awful living with this going on right now, it is temporary. If you go around demanding this and that, you will have to live with possible bad neighbour relations for a long time.

MilletSentToForceIt · 06/05/2019 09:56

We have had four years of this. Our neighbours have refurbished their property from top to bottom, including extension, and loft conversion, most of which they have done themselves or with builder friends over evenings and weekends.

They are now working on the garden, but I think they have yet to redo kitchen, and to knock through to new extension. It has been hell, not just building noise, but all the vans parked outside, blocking us in, deliveries, ditto. The front of their house is a mess of builders rubble, some of which has been there for so long that it is covered in weeds.

We have had drilling into the adjoining wall as late as 9 at night and as early as 7. We have had to cancel social engagements because the noise was so bad we couldn’t hear ourselves speak, so Sunday lunch was out of the question.

If a political party launched a manifesto that had NO building work, including DIY outside of say office hours and Saturday mornings then I would vote for them almost regardless of other policies.

I think, on reflection, it is the loss of control that is so awful. All seems quiet, so we Decide they are not doing anything, so we will have a BBQ, its all prepared, we are about to cook and what do you know, they start taking up a concrete patio. Time and again, not without ‘discussion’ from me occasionally, they are very sorry etc, but then do it again a couple of weeks later.

BookwormMe2 · 06/05/2019 09:57

I wouldn’t go around demanding they stop as it’s a BH. You and your dm have to live next door to these people.

What, so their building work trumps OP's right for peace and quiet on a BH as laid down by the council?? Honestly, I don't get why people put up with this stuff. It's because they're allowed to get away with it that all these noise problems occur. I think it's incredibly selfish to disturb people's weekends because you want to cut costs.

BookwormMe2 · 06/05/2019 09:59

Oh my god MilletSentToForceIt, that sounds horrendous! You poor things. I'd be going spare having to put up with that.

Hecateh · 06/05/2019 10:20

If they needed planning permission it will be part of their conditions when they can and cannot make noise.

I'm not sure if all councils are the same but for me it was between 8 and 6 weekdays, 9 and 2 on Saturdays and Not at all on Sundays and Bank Holidays

PamelaX · 06/05/2019 10:47

If a political party launched a manifesto that had NO building work, including DIY outside of say office hours and Saturday mornings then I would vote for them almost regardless of other policies.

if they include any anti-social noise, including loud parties, so would I.

If any political party is listening.. I bet many people would prioritise their peace and quiet over Brexit and the rest!

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